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The Fragile (Or Robust) Male - How do women see us ??  

Maquis55 70M
39 posts
8/14/2006 6:01 pm

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11/28/2016 1:59 am

The Fragile (Or Robust) Male - How do women see us ??


With all of the banter & backchat that goes on between the genders within an "Adult" site, there can be no doubt that the participants need to be thick-skinned to survive !!

How do women really view the "Site Males" - Are we graded by the level of our conversation, the artistic (Or less so !) content of photographs we post ?? "Performance" if a meeting or meetings follow ??

The view has long been put forward that many men simply view women as a target for their lustful urges & once they've had their "Wicked Way", they lose interest & move to the next target - With some this may be true & others not..........But what of women........How do they treat men ??

Women are capable of multiple orgasms, men less so..........Other than in oral sex, men have to maintain an erection to function sexually, women not having such an obvious object of arousal (Although of course, the female body gives a range of more subtle signs of arousal).

If women view men in a way purely related to their "Sexual Usefulness", how long is it before they outlive this usefulness & get traded in for a more youthful/virile/physically attractive/sexually talented model ??...........In short.......Are we the "Hunters" or the "Hunted".........Some will continually rise to the challenge........Others will wilt (Puns intended !).

Well ladies..........How do you see us ??


CB_2 58F

8/15/2006 3:13 am

I think LesbianPersonals alllows women to be more like men than they are allowed to be in the real world. And that's why you might find more of us predatory than you might meet elsewhere. Yes, women like sex. Yes, many women will happily use and lose a man. But the older we are, the less our lives permit us to be promiscuous fuck buddies, whether we want it or not.

So women here who are not looking for a committed relationship tend to be on the lookout for so-called Friends With Benefits. We want a shag partner who doesn't want to control our lives, because we like our lives as they are. But that doesn't mean we have plans to dump him any time - it's so much hassle to go and find someone else. So if we find an FWB who doesn't wilt, we'll want to keep him.

That's my view, by the way.

You're not thin-skinned are you, honey? (I changed that from "babe", you'll be pleased to hear). Gosh, are you safe to be let loose in blogville on your own, I wonder?

Blogito ergo sum.


Maquis55 70M
113 posts
8/15/2006 2:59 pm

Interesting view - Thank you.

Thin-Skinned...........No.........Quite the reverse !!

"Blogville" - No, I'm probably not safe to be let loose on my own, probably safer in the hustle & bustle of the chat rooms - More immediacy.


X_X_Audrey_X_X 54F

7/17/2007 3:47 pm

Hey Honey - just giving you a wave to say if you wanna go to my blog just click under my name on the left there <<<<<< where it says View My Blog. xoxoxoxoxoxoxo Loving yours - real deep. Hope to speak soon.


Reverbe2 50F
3296 posts
7/18/2007 5:26 am

I see you guys as shallow assholes who wont give a decent gal a break LOL

But seriously though good question... I view the site males here as follows

Mostly morons and munters
Quite Few nice guys who are ok to talk to but as friends only
and in 3 1/2 yrs one nice lad I met
NO potential meets tho

Please view my blog reverbe2 Sweethearts Sanctuary


Maquis55 70M
113 posts
2/11/2008 2:55 pm

Well, Reverbe, there are always good & bad.........I've met 3 ladies who are intelligent, amusing, sensual & great fun to be with & would describe myself as being "Very selective".
Many on LesbianPersonals truly don't know what it is they want & thus, often don't get it..........Which is a shame.
You seem like a nice lady - I hope you get what you want.


Maquis55 70M
113 posts
5/10/2010 1:32 am

Yes, fair comment


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