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Blogs > shysexual_MTgirl > Sexual desires, thoughts & ?s

what do you think?  

shysexual_MTgirl 42F  
760 posts
1/4/2014 11:26 pm

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1/7/2014 6:20 pm
what do you think?

I'm shy . We all know that. But despite that, I'm able to go out to very busy, very public placeall alone. It doesn't bother me. What do you think of a female that can do this? Before you answer, let me say that I don't go out with the intentions of picking up men(at least notallof the time, that would be an exercise in futility most times lol ). I go or because I want to be around people.

But what do YOU see when you see a woman alone at a bar?

I'm going out tonight by myself. I usually go downtown. Sometimes I'll go to watch a game, sometimes I go to people watch, and sometimes I just go to people watch,. But assmen, do you think seeing a woman alone is pathetic or does it take a certain amount of confidence?

I had a discussion with a friend. She's a social butterfly, I used to be a social butterfly. But now, I compare myself to a caterpillar. Sometimes a boy takes me out of the garden and plays with me, but usually goes chasing down the more elusive butterflies. Oh well. Maybe one day I'll be a butterfly again...

JustHere2Cam 56M
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1/5/2014 4:35 am

 I'm not a bar person myself as I'm also fairly shy when it comes to meeting new people. However, most guys will see a woman sitting alone as a potential opportunity. Whether or not they approach you will depend a lot on how you act. If you're smiling, scanning the room, making some eye contact, keeping your arms uncrossed, and generally giving off the impression that you are approachable, then someone is bound to come up to you. If you look sad, don't look around, avoid eye contact, or cross your arms, these are signals that make you appear unapproachable.

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JustHere2Cam 56M
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1/5/2014 4:29 am
    Quoting lil_whimsical:
    I was browsing over new blogs tonight and perused your other posts and profile ... seriously ... you should just TAKE some full-body naked photos of yourself (of course, pose to show your best features - wear something you love) ... and just put yourself OUT THERE.

    One of the best things about this site ... and many-many-many women can vouch for it ... is the discovery that there are men who find all different shapes and sizes ... even the biggest of the biggest, sexy and desirable.

    Ok - yes, you might get some shitty "fat" remarks from some assholes. Trust me - WE ALL GET INSULTS from time to time - from jackasses, that if you follow their posts - just go around insulting EVERYONE. Don't let that discourage you.

    I looked at the comments to some of the breast photos you've already posted - and you have dozens of compliments.

    Some of the most popular bloggers on this site, who've been participating in "Half-Naked Wednesday" posts - and other such games over the years - are some BIG girls (and big guys). NOBODY is rude. Everybody cheers and praises each other.

    There are very few folks on here who are objects of physical perfection (and many of the photos depicting those are stolen from the internet - OR is the member at their very-very physical best at some point in the distant past).
I wish there was a "like", "love", "+1", or other system in place on this site to quickly express how much I love this comment. I suppose my words will have to do.

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lil_whimsical 53F
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1/5/2014 2:12 am

 I was browsing over new blogs tonight and perused your other posts and profile ... seriously ... you should just TAKE some full-body naked photos of yourself (of course, pose to show your best features - wear something you love) ... and just put yourself OUT THERE.

One of the best things about this site ... and many-many-many women can vouch for it ... is the discovery that there are men who find all different shapes and sizes ... even the biggest of the biggest, sexy and desirable.

Ok - yes, you might get some shitty "fat" remarks from some assholes. Trust me - WE ALL GET INSULTS from time to time - from jackasses, that if you follow their posts - just go around insulting EVERYONE. Don't let that discourage you.

I looked at the comments to some of the breast photos you've already posted - and you have dozens of compliments.

Some of the most popular bloggers on this site, who've been participating in "Half-Naked Wednesday" posts - and other such games over the years - are some BIG girls (and big guys). NOBODY is rude. Everybody cheers and praises each other.

There are very few folks on here who are objects of physical perfection (and many of the photos depicting those are stolen from the internet - OR is the member at their very-very physical best at some point in the distant past).


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