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50 shades....  

shysexual_MTgirl 42F  
760 posts
3/6/2015 1:08 pm

Last Read:
3/6/2015 2:15 pm

50 shades....


So, what's your stance on 50 shades of gray? Are you into it? Does it turn you wan? I admit, I really don't know anything about the book, I didn't read it. Nor have I gone to see the movie. And I don't plan to. BDSM isn't really my thing. I think something like that takes a lot of trust, which I have issues with. Don't get me wrong, I'm not opposed to certain aspects of it, just not complete, full-blown BDSM sex.

I am mostly submissive, but I won't fully submit, or at least I haven't met any man that's made me want to fully submit. If you are into BDSM, which side of it are you, the dominant, the submissive… I guess I need to learn more about it. But just from the outside looking in, it doesn't seem like something that I can get into.

If you're into it, maybe you can help me understand…

MaxCourt 56M
338 posts
3/6/2015 1:50 pm

My view for what it's worth...

Main thing is , if you want to know about something (BDSM in the case here) read up about it... use different sources ( the internet, books, videos) so you get a full picture. Trust me, that will serve you better than just a Q on here.. Oh and the book you mention, (it's a trilogy), has some content but is not the best reference.

As examples: If I was not a chef, I would not be a good judge for a cooking competition... if not a Doctor then no good treating patients in a hospital... I think you can see where I am going with this.

Hope this is of help.

Good luck.


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