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Blogs > rm_PJH16 > Wondering

Way Too Hard  

rm_PJH16 71M
Ask me for a photo
174 posts
1/29/2007 12:13 pm

Last Read:
2/12/2007 11:26 am
Way Too Hard

Sometimes I get the feeling that this finding people thing is way too hard.

I mean this site is ok, but more than half the women onhere are not really genuine. At least that's what I've come to believe.

So I get it that women on here get 100's of emails every day. But you'd think that some would respond at least. If they're not interested then say "sorry not interested". The ones that really drive me are the ones that respond once or twice then disappear. So what am I an axe murderer or something????

What ever happened to being polite and interesting? Maybe it's asking too much but I like to meet someone in Winnipeg who is genuinely interested in meeting a nice caring guy (that would be me, by the way) and let the realtionship grow from there. There's a lot of talk on here but very little follow through..very frustrating.

I have met some very very cool people on here and for that I'm thankful. But I haven't been ery successful if you know what I mean. So what's up with that?

From the way people talk on here it should be a lot easier than it is. But that's exactly my point...all talk no action. Women...man they drive me nuts with their hey I'm interested and available...so you email them and they never respond. Either they have so much to choose from or really they're not sincere in the first place. In any event it's very frustrating..and I'm very tired of this game shit.

OK enough ranting for today....

rm_nsf102 49M

1/29/2007 12:31 pm

 I suspect that you are correct; I have adopted the habit of kicking girls off my cam who do not have a profile photo. Even those that do might have nicked it off the web to mask a bloke behind.

I imagine that *real* girls are totally swamped on this site...


cowboywanted2day 52F

1/29/2007 12:34 pm

 Sorry you are having problems finding real people, but trust me they are out there.

Rope'Em!
cowboywanted2day
Lets Save A Horse and Ride Each Other,
cowboywanted2day


somewhere41964 59F

1/29/2007 1:03 pm

 When my profile was open, and I would get those emails from those I had not interest in, I always sent a polite, no thanks. 7 out of 10 would respond back saying thank you for the response as most don't. What ever happened to manners?

As for the real ones, yes they are here. But a friend recently stated that he thought that about 50% of the profile here were from professionals, another 35% from women that thought what the heck (or were just out of a bad situation) and quickly disappear. By his math that only leaves 15% of the profiles from real and interesting gals. Sad thought really if your a guy.

Keep looking, they are here.


Beckoning_BBW 46F
2016 posts
1/29/2007 1:14 pm

 100's of emails?? wow, I am lucky to get 2-3 a week
LOL

Jury still out on the axe murderer though

Communication IS the key so please visit my blog!
~BECKS~


rm_PJH16 replies on 1/30/2007 7:30 am:
Really? Oh well hopefully some day I can prove I'm not an axe murderer...just a nice warm sensitive guy..

amoldenough 77F
16422 posts
2/2/2007 7:00 pm

 I'm with Beckoning BBW above, and isn't she gorgeous! I'm not WITh her, I just agree with her. I only get 3-4 in a good week. That's plenty for me! Just hang in there.
"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."


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