Couples we guy are not all assholes
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Posted:Oct 22, 2014 6:06 am
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2018 3:41 pm
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THE RESPECT FOR COUPLES:
Couples: We know we are a dime a dozen,but that does not mean that we will sit around waiting and planning our evening for you to respond.We have to pursue other options until someone is committed to meeting us.
If we contact you on Monday for a Sat meeting and we have received no response by Wed,even though you have been online, then we will contact others.If we contact someone and they have committed to meeting us and then you contact us on Friday saying that you want to meet on Sat,do not be offended if we tell you that we have commitments that we have to honor.
If we contact you very respectfully and politely(if your profile says that you are looking for men) and you do not respond at all (even if it is a polite "no thank you,I am not interested") then we are left to believe that
A) You were raised by wolves and have no manners
 You are a lazy person--too lazy to respond,or
C)You are game players.If you possess any of those qualities then we do not want to waste our time pursuing you.
If you are not interested a polite quick reply would suffice.We then add your handle to the Block list so that we will not bother you again.Believe me we will respect you more for that.
If you are interested but cannot commit to meeting on a certain day,then please say so and we will understand and perhaps try and work around your schedule.Think of it like being at a dance and you ask someone to dance.How would you feel if they just ignored you and not responded.It is simple courtesy folks.You advertised yourselves and someone responded respectfully to you. If you were a business and you did not respond to a customer then you cannot blame that person for going elsewhere.
Contacting us:
Contact us the way you would like to be contacted.
Do not contact us if it is just hubby wants to see his wife with another man.It has to be 100% from both.
Let us know your schedule so that we can work around it.
Let us know beforehand if you want to take pictures.Do not bring out a camera in the middle of playing and start taking pics.
If we meet at a bar/restaurant and you know that there is absolutely no chemistry tell us immediately.Believe me we will appreciate it and respect you even more.
I am writing this because I think it is important that we all look at it from everyone's perspective,that way meeting can be more rewarding.
Couples,once again we know we are a dime a dozen,but then again so are you when you try and pursue that elusive single woman.Treat us the way you would like that single woman to treat you.Think about it
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What a guy should know
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Posted:Oct 22, 2014 6:04 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2016 12:56 pm
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JUST A THOUGHT FOR THE SINGLE MAN:
From my experience and listening to the horror stories from couples about single men,I would like to offer my advice to single men who want to be with couples:
First and foremost remember we are a dime a dozen here on LesbianPersonals.
If you are homo-phobic do not contact a couple.
If you cannot preform with another man being present do not contact a couple.
If your initial contact is 5 lines or less,chances are you will not get a response.
In your initial contact,do not tell a couple what you want to do to the lady.
Tell them a little about yourself.Be respectful,humorous and compliment them on the things on their profile that interests you.
Be honest,remember you are hoping to meet them.
MEETING:
Remember you only have one person's schedule to plan around.A couple has themselves plus their 's schedule to think about so be patient.
Be discreet about meeting but do not ask to meet in your car or a parking lot or on a street.Instead try a bar,restaurant or coffee shop.
Let them know that the only expectation you will have of them is meeting.
Show up,show up,show up.If you are delayed or an emergency happens,notify them immediately.If you do not notify them,the only way you will get a second chance is if you have a death certificate.
Upon meeting chances are you will be nervous,so will they.This is normal.To overcome this have a drink,be humorous talk about things other than the lifestyle.Once everyone is relaxed and comfortable try flirting.
Do not ask for their address or where they work.They will tell you only if they want to
Engage hubby in your conversation.After all he is part of the experience and represents 50% of the decision.
If you are interested let them know and suggest a possible location.
Ask them if they are interested then leave and go to the washroom or somewhere.This gives them time to discuss it privately as opposed to putting them on the spot.Always respect their decision and do not attempt to change their minds.
PLAYING:
Ask them for their doe's , don't s and maybes. Inquire about their fantasies with a single man.
Some times you will be required to make the first move to get the action started, but the lady is the one in charge so let her control how things progress. I find standing behind the lady rubbing her arms and caressing her neck to be effective.
Remember you are there to compliment hubby in pleasuring the lady--not to compete with him.For hubby it is a celebration of his security with his lady.You are not there because he needs help.
Never assume that you can do everything to the lady that the husband does to her.
Do not try and convince them that they should try something if they already told you no. ie. anal.
Bring your own condoms.Chances are they do not use it between themselves so why should they have any.
Try your best to not climax before the lady.
If you are enjoying it let hubby know how lucky he is to have such a lady.
If hubby wants to watch or participate respect his decision.
Sense what really turns them on and focus on that.
AFTER THE PLAYING:
Let them know if they would like to get together again for them to contact you,not you contacting them.This prevents you from putting pressure on the time you are together with them, and that you do not become a part of their lives.
Never ever ask the lady to meet you alone,behind hubby's back.
Remember the lady may have gone to bed with you but it is hubby she wants to wake up to.
Let them know that if you saw them in public with their friends that you will make eye contact but never approach them.This will prevent placing them in an awkward situation with their friends.They can approach you.
Ask them if you could write a testimonial to vouch for their character so that others will know that they are real and not game players.Do not be offended if they say no.Some people like to keep it private.
Finally remember the first advice--We are a dime a dozen.
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Why do some need more
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Posted:Nov 18, 2011 8:12 am
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2018 3:45 pm
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Variety is one reason. Another may be the unknown. You may have noticed, not everyone is alike when having sex. Some are quiet,some loud,others may be both, Bodies are also different. So we explore. It isn't that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. This is only true when one is cheating on another. Like the husband who always works late, while the woman stays at home and has sex wih the neighbor. In a lifestyle relationship, there isn't a fence. It is two people who enjoy sex with others and have this in common. Is it something everyone does? NO, it's something that sexual people do together and are honest about their feelings. Why do it? Well, for one thing, sex is fun if done right. It Feels Good. Lightly touch a ladies hand and she may smile. But, if you touch her pussy she will sigh. Touch a mans hand and he will look at you,but, touch his cock and he will breath in and groan. Fact is, your on this site because you like sex. People fuck because they like it. Variety is great as it fights boredom, brings pleasure,and also helps to bring understanding to a relationship that sex is not love. But it is ok to love sex...
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The Art of Eating Pussy
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Posted:Nov 4, 2011 6:47 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2016 12:57 pm
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1.Don’t just go straight for the clit! Build up some anticipation. I know, as men you prefer for a chic to get right on your dick but we know men and women are different. Kiss her body, tease her thighs and buttocks. Women like it when a man takes the time to appreciate her and her body. What she won't like is an overachiever who jumps right in with an aggressive tongue. Use your tongue to lick her pussy from ass to clit.
2. Don't dive in!!! When you begin to kiss and lick her pussy, work your way in slowly from the outside. Start by licking the outer edges of her outer lips, then very slowly spread them, and lick and kiss the inner lips, and around her pussy. Do this gently, as though you were still teasing her. Move your tongue freely from her inner lips to her outer lips on one side. Once you've done that, draw her lips into your mouth and massage them with your tongue. Don’t forget there is two sides play with them evenly.
3. Suck it up!!! Suck her clit into your mouth and flick your tongue over it. This combines suction with a much faster rhythm. Women like that.
4. Grab hold! Hold on to her thighs or her backside so you can rub yourself against her well. From there you can also reach up and caress her breasts or, if she likes, place your hands near her mouth so she can suck on your fingers.
5. Use your fingers! Fingers will intensify her orgasm by just penetrating her as you lick her. You can also alternate between fucking and licking her. The tongue is great for oral sex, but adding a couple of fingers into the mix will definitely multiply sensations and may lead to other multiples.
6. Play with her butt!! In the spirit of fingers, while your index finger is finding its way inside her pussy, use your thumb to simply rub the rim of her ass. If she reacts in a very positive way, wet a finger with her juices and slowly insert your finger into her ass. But remember: Once that finger goes in her ass, you shouldn't put it in her pussy again.
My Favorite!!!!!
7. Penetrate her with your tongue Point your tongue and make it as hard as you can, and slowly penetrate her with it, going as deep as you can. Allow your tongue to wander; press against her walls let it find what it can. Go slow at first and pick up the pace. It'll be mostly a licking-up motion. Pay attention to her reaction listen to the pitch and tone of her moans to determine what spots turn her on most. Trust me if your brave enough to try it it’s worth it. Some of the LONGEST most intense orgasms from a tongue rubbing the inside of her pussy in the right spots….
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Does this explain it?
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Posted:Oct 26, 2011 5:58 am
Last Updated:Nov 19, 2014 7:18 am
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There are moments between a Master and His slave. the private moments that only they share - when the whip hits her in just the right spot, He knows, even before it lands on His mark - He knows what her reaction will be....she flinches, then she succumbs and she anticipates His next tool of pleasure/pain...she takes comfort in the trust she's learned to place in Him.
This beautiful Man has taken the time to get to know her, not just her physical reactions, but where her emotions may take her. her thoughts are of pleasing Him, but selfishly, she knows therein lies her pleasure. Every time she hears Him utter the words "good girl" she is encouraged to go wherever His devilish mind deems fit for His slut. He takes her to the brink of ecstasy, then reels her in, she after all is there for His pleasure...and in His pleasure she finds her joy and freedom...
So few and far between are those that make a girls head spin, the quest is for the One that makes a girl stop and truly question her slavery and her sexuality, more importantly - the One that leaves her wanting to disclose these traits to Him, exposing her true vulnerability.
What is that "thing" that they possess? my conclusion is that it's many things - there is that piercing look when He stares me down into a state of willing submission, the confidence in His voice when He makes a request of me (or is it an order?), the gentle touch upon my face knowing i realize the hard slap that may follow, the pure lust in my loins as He has me do His bidding - be it get coffee or take His cock in my ass - no difference, it's His bidding that is a turn on to me...
On the surface, I’m a strong woman, but there's a girl inside, the one that wants - fuck it - NEEDS - to be controlled, to be forced to her knees. To be pulled by the hair and to be put in her submissive state, where she belongs, where she is most comfortable. she needs a confident man to use His strong hands on her head forcing His hard cock down her throat, to be told what a beautiful slut/ she is when she drools at Him with a gag in her mouth and begs with her eyes, she wants to please Him as she struggles to take all He has to give...
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