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Just like Burger King...I want to have it my way
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Just like Burger King...I want to have it my way Often times I get asked the same few questions by men when a dialogue first starts up with me. Legitimate questions to be sure...I am not complaining. So I thought I would address them here...maybe save some time. I usually get asked the following things: "What are you looking for?" "What is off limits?" "What turns you on?" "What's your favorite position?" ~I can safely say that I am looking for just about the same thing most people are on this site. It varies between people as to the extent of their search...but let's face it, when we signed up it was for sexual reasons. Nothing wrong with that at all from what I can tell. Now you may stay on here just to get your daily perv on...or perhaps you are here to find that one perfect friends with benefits. And maybe you have been lucky enough to find a mate and you stay because of the group functions and friends you have made. Whatever the reason is as of this moment...we should all at least admit it was for sexual reasons on that first day we logged in. ~I should get the negative out of the way first. What turns me off or is off limits...I do have a list. And here it goes: Anal, scat play, Bondage/discipline (although there are a couple of things I want to try), sadism, masochism, sadomasochism, gang bangs, group sex, swinging, lesbian, strap on, anything involving urine....I think you might get the idea of my dislikes.  ~What turns me on: The physical traits are listed in my profile. I like people I can at least talk to outside of fucking. Sex with me should be sensual and erotic. Nothing wrong with a quicky one night stand...but I have to have at least some connection. I am not talking true love or a long term thing, but come on. I gotta at least be attracted to you enough that I would talk to you outside the realms of LesbianPersonals. I have had sexual partners that were compitant in bed...but sooo not in the personality department. They were not stupid, but we had nothing in common. I could not relate to anything they were interested in. And for that reason...I no longer see them. A few things that make me swoon or giggle with glee: Boxers or boxer briefs. A good crisp clean white shirt that fits well...and if it is a tshirt...must fit just right. Not too tight but not too loose. Shorts that ride just a little low on the hips, but not like "pants on the ground" kind of thing. Those white shirts with the crosses on the back. I have no idea why...but for some reason on the right torso they are hot. ~Favorite positions: This is the most asked question by anyone. I have two that I prefer most often. The first is where the man is sitting on the couch and I am riding him while facing him. I can get the most dizzying orgasms that way. I swear I get dizzy and light headed. lol His head buried in my chest...sucking on my nipples or nibbling my neck. I can pull him in for a deep kiss as I gring up against him. Naked torso against naked torso. I also like this position clothed during foreplay. Being on top in the bed is great. It is a wonderful feeling...but for a fluffier gal such as myself it is not always easy. I will never be like those porn gals bouncing up and down on the man's cock like a spring. My next is sometimes a dissapointment for men to hear. Missionary. I happen to like the man on top. It is for me the best way to satisfy my intimacy demands. And there are many variations to the strict "missionary" pose. I happen to like wrapping my legs around his waist. I like to feel his hips with my hands as he is thrusting. Those muscles working. I get super turned when I see some videos of a man fucking a woman where you can see him doing it. The way his hips move and the muscles clenching. That is hot. ~Threesomes: If I ever did one it would be MMF. I am not really interested in FFM because I have no desire to play with a woman. And while I know there are cases where the two women do not play together...I am still hesitant. The problem that arises with me and an MMF is that I am picky. I need the two men to be ones I would be intimate with individually. Men that I find sexy and interesting and fun and sensual just as themselves. I have to like them as people. And they have to like each other. They could play with each other as well in the MMF if they wanted but it is not necessary. And no way am I interested in a porn style threesome. I want it to be about ME. No DP or the like. I want sensuality. I want me to be lying in bed between the two men being pleased all over my body with their hands and mouths. Erotic sex. ~Doggy style: I do not hate doggy style. I do it mostly because it is pleasurable to the man. And I wish for him to have pleasure. I enjoy watching him in the mirror behind my bed as he thrusts and fucks me. The look on his face as he thrusts his hard cock into my wet willing pussy. And of course if we are sideways to the mirror...I get to see that hip movement. That is the position of me being on all fours. There is also me laying on the bed and him going that way. As I said...not my favorite..but not off limits. Unless of course you are an idiot and have no concept of getting me ready for it and you just go in fighting. ~Oral sex: I enjoy sucking a man's dick. Read my blog. ~Addressing all the above things is great but the idea still is that I want to tell you how I like my sex. I admit to have had experiences outside these preferances....and in the end they were not lasting. Yeah a quicky fuck can suit a purpose for some people but I have found not for me. Not anymore. I like my sex to start with foreplay. And I am not talking a kiss on the neck and a finger in the pussy kind of foreplay. Read my blog about it and you will get the idea. Taking into consideration the positions discussed above...here is how I like it. I like a man that can fuck me slow and deep. I want his cock to fill me completely....I want sensuality. But I also want the man to be able to take charge and fuck like a champion when he wants. Slow and easy is okay some of the time...but work up to some power fucking. That strength a man can have that just overwhelms me with desire as he plunges into me and rides me like a filly at Churchill Downs on racing day. I like a solid strong man. I want him to kiss me and caress me...I want his hands on my body. I want his lips on mine. I would like to try being tied up...but very gently. My desire is to have my hands tied above my head with a silky scarf and have the man fuck me slow and sensually. Use my body and my eyes to portray how turned on I am. I have had my hands tied behind my back once. I could not do it. Not because I was scared...I trust him...but more because it was uncomfortable. I am hoping he would like to try it again. Same goes for a blindfold. Put it on and let me use my hands to read him. I am hoping that what I have included here is informative to the reader. I welcome any suggestions to things I could try. If you do not agree with my words...keep it to yourself. I look forward to hearing from you.... {=}Witty |
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7/17/2010 4:01 am |
Very interesting, hope all the ladies on here are like you lol!
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7/17/2010 5:35 am |
love to chat with you sometime
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7/17/2010 7:17 am |
I wish I could have run into you when I lived in San Antonio. You sound very intriguing. Sadly moved to NM 2 years ago. Occasionally get back there though.
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Way to eliminate all the BS and lay it out there, great post.
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Dayum Witty, I love how you think, reminds me of me sometimes...wow, that is scary.
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Interesting, so these are questions you get early on in conversations? Talk about being in a rush, seems like they could take some time to small talk and get to know something about you before going after these details.
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7/28/2010 10:53 pm |
Hey i tried to send you a message but idk if you ever received it. But I loved reading your blog. I think we are very compatiable and believe we can have a fun time together. please look past my age and take a chance and try something new and fun.
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7/29/2010 8:02 pm |
dont know if you recieved the message but message me abck at card46@ live.com
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Missionary is also a favorite of mine.And the couch play has been a pivot point any sexual encounter for as long as I can remember. Nice article.
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Extremely well written and to the point. Doggy is over rated by the way. I also enjoy reverse cowboy so I can spank her ass a little as she rides. The blindfolds and tying ? Got to know..did it ever happen as you wished ? It is something I also like doing but the blindfold part you need to be tied for that as well as the man is exploring your body and you being "helpless" and open for his hands and tongue to touch you where he wants but you can only experience the "feel". It is extremely arousing if done properly. Best wishes. So sorry I never saw your blogs before this. Hope you are still active enough to write some new ones. I would love to read more about you. Dan
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Loved your outline - it tell so much about you. I love to be ridden with my partner on top facing me. I enjoy feeling her move side to side and down and back . Teasing her clit is fun. When being ridden reverse cowgirl I like to be a little naughty and play with her ass. Discovering what makes a woman orgasm is my main goal and making you cum all over me would be so hot.
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