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Cancelling and/or changing plans
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Cancelling and/or changing plans Have you ever made plans with someone from LesbianPersonals and had to cancel or change them? How did it go?Did they get pissed off and tell you off? Were they understanding of your situation? Have you ever been cancelled on? Someone bail on you? Today I had to cancel a play date for the 2nd time. I feel absolutely terrible about it! The reason was for medical/female issues and partially due to his preference.Not everyone wants to earn their wings... So anyway, how do you react when someone cancels or reschedules? Do you get upset and delete them, label them a tease or a flake? Or are you understanding and realize that things do come up? I try to be understanding, one thing I do not tolerate is being stood up. I took the time to meet you and you didn't have the courtesy to text, call, email to let me know you weren't coming! You just wasted my precious time that I could have been using to meet someone else! Depending on my mood at the time of the cancellation I will usually be understanding. If you bail on me and then try to see me again I will tell you how I feel and usually it will be in a somewhat intelligent although possibly abrasive way.  i have been known to cut people down using words and they were none the wiser.Some say I am too nice, others say I am too impatient. So what do you do when someone cancels/reschedules? Are you understanding, or do you immediately write them off?  |
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I would be understanding, life happens and lets face it this is play time so when life calls you have to answer even if the timing is bad, i would give them a second chance if it happened again that is when i would call them a fake.
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9/5/2012 2:09 pm |
Hey shit happens....right??
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You know it babe! lol
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Crphnx THANK YOU! your comment was very insightful and eye opening! Great thoughts!
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