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Blogs > alana262 > Just a thought.

What I"m looking for.  

alana262 58T  
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6/7/2010 9:05 am

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What I"m looking for.

Initially I was at a loss for this months blog subject matter (see previous blogs for my views on the requirement that I blog at all). Then it occurred to me that it is almost inevitable that anyone who I correspond with will ask "what are you looking for?". I often wonder what difference that makes to the inquirer, since it usually means "Can you provide what I am looking for?". Why not just open with that information so that we could get to the heart of the conversation.
My most honest and candid (and most reasonable) answer to "What are you looking for?) is:

I am looking for an introduction. From there everything will find its own level and "que sera,sera" (what will be will be). I'm sure that everyone has experienced the capricious nature of life in the arena of human interaction. A causal hello at a grocery store may lead to an important relationship. A much anticipated date with that distant object of desire may fizzle in the first hour or two. If sex is your objective, it is always possibility when adults are interacting (and what is more irresistible than a charming man?). Why put pressure on the situation of a first meeting with great expectations? I find expectation to be the road to disappointment. I would much rather be pleasantly surprised at the turns that an evening takes (and enjoy it for whatever it becomes) than disappointed that it did not live up to my expectations.
If what you really want to know is what I enjoy sexually (or am open to trying), ask me when you call. This is a medium of anonymity, and I have no intention of giving out my most personal and private information to someone that I have no connection with. If we have reached the point where personal details are called for, the we are obviously on the verge of meeting, and I would never agree to meet anyone anywhere that I hadn't spoken to (what is so unreasonable about that?).
That should be enough to fulfill the requirement for this month. 8 more to go!

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