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If you don't know me don't judge me!!!  

Fireman061 58M
3 posts
4/20/2008 7:13 am
If you don't know me don't judge me!!!


Every time I say hello to a woman and we start a conversation, we always start talking about our personal life. Which is fine, I don't mind that at all because its a way to get to know them. But once you start explaining why your here and what your looking for, the women start to judge you. Granted, some of the women are single and looking for a man, but I don't feel you single women are going to find the quality of man your looking for on an adult web site. Maybe you should be on a dating web site instead of an adult sex site. I know what I'm here for and why and if you don't like it you don't have to talk to me. You don't know my situation, you don't know why I'm looking for a "Friend with benefits" and you don't know the situation I'm in at home. I'm not asking you to fix it, I'm not here to deliberate why I'm staying in my situation, I'm here to have a little fun for myself. I don't judge the reasons your here. Maybe your here because your significant other doesn't pay attention to you, maybe your here because you don't want to leave because you like the situation in but for some reason your not totally satisfied. That's your business, but maybe I have what will satisfy you for a little while? Either way then it becomes our business, but we're not here to judge people. Yes, I'm married, and yes I'm here to find a friend, but its my business and I'm not here to be judged or changed. When I'm ready to change I will. Women have all the power to make you or break you and just maybe I'm tire of trying to be broke. I just want to do something for myself, but not ready to break loose from what I have. Maybe some men are not as tough as others and don't want to get hurt or hurt others the way they have been, so they turn to someone they don't know to just forget what their situation is for just a little while. "It's their business". I'm a writer, I like to put down what I'm thinking on paper or where someone can read it. I'm still not asking to be judged. I'll be judged when I'm gone, and not by you. so until then judge yourself and not others and respect why their here. You may not like it, but it's their own reasons why their here and doing what they want. Good night I sound like I'm bitching ...ok if you read this fine...thanks for listening...

Fireman061 58M
7 posts
4/20/2008 8:06 am

Thanks to everyone that responded so quickly...I've been going through a lot here in my life and thought maybe this was a way to "Downlaod" some stress...luvbigcocks627 and 4acbetman..thank you both for responding so quickly...they say sex is a big stress reliever but when you dont have that luxury then my next outlet is writing...and believe me I can use it...


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