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WHY/NOT?? (Or any answers for...??)  

bootedbidomme 62T
8 posts
12/1/2010 8:57 pm
WHY/NOT?? (Or any answers for...??)


Why is it so many people can wink, flirt, show 'interest' for whatever desire...or 'quick comment' boots, fishnets, nails, lipstick or whatever but not legitimately write something more heartful than a mere copy and paste. Are real people that 'intimidating' or underserving than less of being a perception of a secondary statue? Yes, I fully understand NSA and FWB, but is there not more than just a momentary flash of brilliance?? Like it or not (those who invest little time would comprehend true brilliance that can encompass five or six senses for longer than a flash)....there is more than just a phot and momentary pleasure. Even if it does not find completion in a gold strike, is there not some purpose in the labor of mining for the gold?? Or have we become an avatar bearing fools gold without true value beyond the first dig?
Geez, be honest, be true to yourself, and don't be afraid to write! The best reply may not be the moment of hearing what you want, but the real purpose of understanding what you m need to hear!
Come with whatever...just leave with a smile!
The booted gal!

tallandfunguy74 50M

3/14/2013 3:41 am

I truly understand what you are saying! Oh how I too have to deal with the frustration of just trying to start a conversation with a person (female,couple also ladies of your type) here on LesbianPersonals instant messenger. The ratio is in favor of the women by tenfolds and they know it and become rude and bossy or extremely picky. I try to be courteous and well mannered by saying "Hi how are you?", "I like your photo. Would you like to chat?" and the majority of the time (99.9 I am simply ignored. Would it be so difficult for people to say no thanks I am not interested? Also I am sure as an individual as yourself you get so many more people who are curious about meeting and want to talk on line but chicken out when the it is time to meet.
On top of all of that the art-form of commutation has been lost with today's techno savvy tex-ting terms (brb,ttyl,lol,lmao ect.) people don't know how to spell anymore (I probably have a misspelled word in here). I don't know how many times right in the middle of a face to face conversation the other person has pulled out there cell phone to check their face-book page or just started playing a game.

In closing yes this site can be very frustrating! But just keep looking, I am sure there is someone out there who can deliver what you are looking for. Maybe me?
Hope this helps.


mizjulz 60F
30 posts
5/25/2019 2:11 pm

So much truth in your words. Most modern humans have the attention span of gnats.


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