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2nd day of blogging.
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2nd day of blogging. Hello all. Well looks like I am single after 4 yrs. I was engaged for 2 of those. Feeling a Little lonely. Its weird I am so use to having someone around that I don't know what to do with myself. I am sure a lot of u have many ideals for me. I know I am not ready to jump back in the dating game, maybe just have a little fun.(wink,wink) I know there are many of u that have had long term relationships, and maybe some of u could give a little advice on how to get over this, I seem to be crying all the time, and I feel so lonely. I don't think I have it in me to get back on the right now. Being on the computer chatting and responding to e-mails help a lot, they get my mind off it for awhile. I don't think I can live on the computer for ever. Plz if any of u can help,(and i mean in the clean way) let me know. Thanks again Tina |
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9/15/2008 7:50 am |
There is no quick way to recover from a break up involving a long term relationship. And jumping right into another relationship 99% of the time fails also. It is always wise to take a few month to put yourself back together. As you said you are cry and lonely all the time. That is cause a portion of your life has been rip out of you. All the time, effort, and emotion you put into the relationship is gone. And now what you had come used to having is no longer there. It will hurt, it gonna hurt, and there is nothing you can really do to soften the blow. You just have to trudge thru all the emotions and work thru the pain. Eventually will will go away. Keeping your self busy will certainly help to distract you, but eventually you will have to face the emotion pain of the event. Once you are past that, then you are fine. Getting to that point is never easy and always take a little time. In the end, you will be a better person for it, and you will know more of what you want in a long term relationship. Life is a learning expereince, and we best learn from our mistake and failures. As nomad said, You should be excited for what life has planned for you next. Bill and June Bill and June find us online, free to jion www. f-w-b-2. com
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9/15/2008 10:49 am |
You know Sex Just for the fun of it can be a great stress releiver, have you ever thought about adding some hot pics of yourself to your profile?
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The first time I split with a lover was devistating. The next time it wasn't as bad. The last time it was barely a "blip" in my life. Maybe we get used to it after a while. None of us ever have any guarantees in our relationships and affairs. We just do the best we can and hope things continue to work out. By the way, there's nothing wrong with "no strings fun," as long as your expectations are limited. In fact, some of the least promising "friendships" I've ever had started out with no expectation of anything special. But they turned out to be much more. Maybe that can happen for you, too. HermansBoy
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