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Riding the bull
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Riding the bull So, no, intercourse is not something I always need to “complete the job” as you say. And as I said, the sexual intimacy I need so much does not often need to end in or even include intercourse. Since it seems most women prefer the man be in charge during intercourse, we have to constantly fight with our burning instincts to come, keep enough control of our actions, while at the same staying aware of and meeting her needs. She can just choose to just relax and enjoy the waves, putting all the pressure on us to maintain control and meet her needs. We rarely get that luxury. Our instincts are to burn fast and hot. We want to reach the peak and deposit our seed. She wants to ride the waves and make it last as long as it can. And we know we only get one shot at it. We come, we are finished. To me intercourse is like riding that mechanical bull in the country bars. It is one heck of a big kick, but it takes a lot of effort, concentration and practice to stay on that bull for very long. Why do you think guys so enjoy getting oral sex from a woman uninhibited enough to let us reach our peak and just enjoy ourselves when we get there? We can just lay back and enjoy ourselves once in a while. Personally I never understood the love affair popular culture has with “69”. I prefer to takes turns pleasing each other. Then you just concentrate on meeting each other’s needs and not have to deal with your own fight to stay on that bull at the same time. As far as giving a woman oral pleasure, to me, there is nothing more exciting or intimate than doing so. I love to do it. You are so able to easily please her completely that way. Your body and your needs do not distract you. You abandon yourself to savoring her exotic bouquet and chasing down every last precious droplet of her luscious love juices. You are positioned right at the very core of her physical being and her sexuality. You can easily experience and have an awareness of her every action and reaction. The beating of her heart, the quickening of her breathing, the spreading tensions radiating out from her center to the rest of her body, the pulsing of the blood though her veins. Feeling her body’s little tremors and mini quakes. You learn how she responds to her waves of pleasure, you create more ripples and waves of pleasure for her, intensifying or ebbing them as you choose. And sometimes you might even get a chance to hitchhike a ride on them along with her to her peak. If you are in sync enough, you can actually take her to peak and over it, then do it again and again. And you get a small peek at just what luxuries we miss experiencing life as a man. For a majority of us. We come, we are finished. There are many non-sexual ways to get that intimate with a woman spiritually and emotionally. But sexually and physically you can never feel closer to her than you can this way. I often wonder if men who do not enjoy doing it like I do actually care about true closeness and intimacy. It shocks me that there are actually men out there who don’t want to experience that, and for that matter women who are uncomfortable with men wanting to share that with them. This is an excerpt from a letter I recently wrote to a long time female friend who said I was just like all the rest of men, and that we are all obsessed with just getting a woman in bed just so we can screw them. She was not too pleased with my comments. Are there any comments from other women or men out there? Was I right or wrong? What do you think? |
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Speaking only for myself, oral, I became reluctant to enjoy oral sex because so many men avoided it, I believed that it was something men found distasteful. Literally, lol. There is nothing more freeing than being able to open my legs for a man who loves to pleasure me in this manner and whom I know truly loves giving me oral sex. Just as I want him to allow me to reciprocate and as you say, just lay back and relax. I totally agree with you on 69. It makes me think back to high school. When a man is pleasuring me orally, I want to focus only on that, and vice versa. However...it's hard to beat that moment when a man enters me and I take in his hardness and meet his thrusts. I don't want him to worry about how long he lasts, only that we both enjoy the experience. There are so many paths to pleasure...
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