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Contradictions in our natures.  

peekabooicu2ucme 46F
3728 posts
4/21/2009 11:33 pm
Contradictions in our natures.

I have noticed conflictions in many people that don't seem to make sense. It is as if confusion and drama is their goal. Maybe it's just plain hypocracy or selfishness or down right ignorance.
People that want to be adored, but are repulsed at the thought of anyone "clinging" to them.
People that expect faithfulness but give none.
Chase me but don't stalk me. (Yes, I know, it can be a fine line.)
You can't buy me, but buy me stuff.
Talk dirty to me, but use only the words that I like.
Take an interest in me, but don't be nosey.
Give me attention, but don't give me too much or I'll think you're too into me.
Talk to me, but don't tell me anything but what I want to hear.
Like me, adore me, but don't you dare love me.
Give me your everything while I hold back and give you crumbs.
Be at my beck and call, but honey, I'm just too busy for you right now.
Augh! Is it any wonder that I hid in my cave for so long? People are down right frustrating! It's all "I want", "Gimme", "Do it like this", "Don't do that", "You just don't get me"... Commands and demands. "Don't think for yourself, let me do it all for the both of us."
What happened to manners, and consideration? Human feeling and compassion?
It's not that I don't understand it, or that I "don't get you", I just find it repulsive, sad and maddening. Common decency and politeness has become rare and elusive.
A friend recently told me that it has to do with each of us being the lead in our own little plays and everyone else merely players to amuse and entertain us. That reminded me of a quote which states "You are just a cog in the wheel."
I do not lump all people into this of course. There are selfless, kind and considerate people still. They are just rare and outnumbered.


Come visit me too peekabooicu2ucme



Regularguy1845 66M
1003 posts
4/22/2009 4:10 am

Amen.

RG


OverEasy4Play 53M
161 posts
4/27/2009 11:07 am

"Harder! Harder! Do it like this and make it hurt!"

Damend selfish people make for terrible lovers. If that's all they want I simply hit it hard twice cuff 'em up side the head then leave...

On a side note; why do you think I'm not getting many return calls of late?


peekabooicu2ucme 46F
4530 posts
4/27/2009 12:07 pm

LMAO You are fabulous! Thank you!

Come visit me too peekabooicu2ucme


hornyandnice 55M

7/21/2009 5:06 pm

totally agree why all the contradictions, what is there to gain from it all.say it as it should be. games no thanks. Ps they are few and far between rare as well. But i know one kind and considerate lady(AMA) LOTS Cxxxxxxxxx


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