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Blogs > peekabooicu2ucme > Musings and mayhem of my mind

Temptation  

peekabooicu2ucme 46F
3728 posts
8/26/2009 7:25 am
Temptation
Life is full of temptation whether it be to eat that piece of cake, or reach out and touch that person that's just begging you to with their eyes. There are always multiple choices in front of us at any given point of time. Which ones we choose to take is completely up to ourselves. The paths we take lead us in different directions. A few bad choices probably won't hurt us in the long run, but constant bad choices surely will. But where does that ratio begin and end? One piece of cake, or one bad partner choice, will probably not make much of an overall difference in our lives, but when they keep adding up surely it detracts from ourselves and in the long run make us less attractive to the better choices doesn't it?
Most people can be pretty hypocritical. They want one thing for themselves, but something entirely different out of their "one". I know many guys that have said that they "whored around" quite a bit before they "settled down". Did they settle down with one of the chicks they whored around with? Of course not. They wanted the "good girl" that they could "trust". Kind of an interesting phenomenon don't ya think? And then several of these guys end up dissatisfied because their "good girls" aren't as sexually open as the ones they were whoring around with. So what happens? They around some more, get caught, get divorced, ect ect ect, and then look for another "good girl" to spend their lives with, while whoring around. Don't get me wrong, I know some chicks that have done exactly the same thing. I just happen to know more guys that have.
Now I know that not everyone is looking for the same things. Obviously people everywhere are different and unique and that's a good thing. But it's a bad thing when we hold others to standards that we ourselves don't meet. Someone is always going to end up frustrated and disappointed that way. And another thing is that being dishonest about who you really are and about what you really want will only bring heart ache to yourself and anyone you try to partner up with for anything long term.
So what to do? Fucked if I know. Just be yourself I guess and take your time finding out if the one(s) you're interested in are being themselves. Give into temptation when you think it'd be good for you and what you want not only in the moment, but think about how it will effect you long term as well. And when you find what you want, dive in without restraint. Don't be afraid to immerse yourself in happiness. Think but don't over think. And hell, enjoy your life. You only get one of them right?

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englishman68 55M
2387 posts
8/26/2009 9:43 am

 Wow! Never a true word spoken, It is always best to be true and honest about what you want/looking for,like you said the pain it causes man that runs deep, iv'e had it nine years ago and it hurt like hell. So yeah the one life we have. go and have fun
Truth,kindness and respect is what i give,and thats all i ask in return

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Hardupfosho 48M
1727 posts
8/26/2009 7:46 pm

 Like good old Will used to say: "To thine own self be true...". Easier said than done though, I think.

Oh and that is a ridiculous double standard that you mentioned. Another very human mystery that one.

Yaa @ reaching out and touching someone with cake!


HuckFin00 49M
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8/27/2009 6:29 am

 I gave into temptation and got maced right in the face. Thanks for the advice, maybe you should pay for my attorney.


peekabooicu2ucme 46F
4530 posts
8/27/2009 2:29 pm
    Quoting englishman68:
    Wow! Never a true word spoken, It is always best to be true and honest about what you want/looking for,like you said the pain it causes man that runs deep, iv'e had it nine years ago and it hurt like hell. So yeah the one life we have. go and have fun
Being lied to or cheated on always hurts, and it's hard to not let that jade our futures. Be happy C, and yes, have fun.
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peekabooicu2ucme 46F
4530 posts
8/27/2009 2:31 pm
    Quoting  :
I write whatever pops into my head, I'm sure my thoughts aren't entirely unique. I'm glad you liked it.
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peekabooicu2ucme 46F
4530 posts
8/27/2009 2:32 pm
    Quoting Hardupfosho:
    Like good old Will used to say: "To thine own self be true...". Easier said than done though, I think.

    Oh and that is a ridiculous double standard that you mentioned. Another very human mystery that one.

    Yaa @ reaching out and touching someone with cake!
People are full of double standards and such, I think my third (?) post was about something like that.
YAY cake and touching!
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peekabooicu2ucme 46F
4530 posts
8/27/2009 2:33 pm
    Quoting HuckFin00:
    I gave into temptation and got maced right in the face. Thanks for the advice, maybe you should pay for my attorney.
Awww Huck, I'm sorry. I thought you were someone else.
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