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Tick, tick, tick Drama Queen showed up with RB this afternoon after her after school program.  store garage X-apt ------------------------------------------------------------ ]**********************************************] ]*************************************Bus stop.] ]**********************************************] ]**********************************************] ]**********************************************] ] ] ] ] ] My House Yeah. Suck. Anywho, he's told her that his gf's apt's pool is open tomorrow knowing that I will not be driving the 2+ hours there between the 2 youngest's physicals, Cinderella's counseling, and my sleep pattern (insert insane laughter here) before I work my 3 12 hour night shifts in a row due to the holiday weekend. So of course she wants to go and begins to throw a "why not" hissy fit.  Perfect.After the midgets are indoors mowing down on dinner I ask him if he's gotten his paperwork yet. He lies. It's nothing but drama and bull shit. I ask him to NOT get the hopes up for stuff when he knows my schedule. He denies.  Court is the first. I can't wait for this to be settled definitively with no recourse for the near future.  FFS I've bent over backwards to make parenting time a positive thing for him and the midgets. I just don't get the immature idiocy that drives him to be a douche so consistently.  It just frustrates the midgets. I can deal with the annoyance, it's their psyche I worry about. Daddy's an immature and selfish shmuck, and yet I'll never tell them that. I have far too much restraint for that.  Eh, they're smart and will figure it out on their own. It's just too bad that he continues to play pointless harmful games.  Anywho, Drama Queen went on to tell me later how RB was reading the GAL recommendations in front of her and cussing. I got a little hurt this morning at work transferring a resident. She picked up her feet unexpectedly, and it pulled on my left shoulder a bit. It feels much better now though. Just twinges a bit. We didn't finish those last two rows today either...maybe tomorrow between appointments. I have to put my van in the garage to try to pass inspection as it's almost the end of my birthday month. Why is it that the birthday month is such an expensive one?  Wee One and The Queen of No Pants have their physicals for preschool and Kindergarten tomorrow as well. My birthday is on Sunday. I bought myself a real scorpion encased in a tear drop shaped green (I'm guessing plasticish stuff) thingy on a silky cord. I so heart E-bay.  Just another day in the life of Peeks. Got any good plans for the weekend?  |
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Weekend plans. Massive spring cleaning, and a ridiculous amount of playing bass. And Bambi and Chuck have inspired me to also sizzle some marinated chicken and burgers on my outdoor grill! Probably more bass playing than anything else. When you have the opportunity to "woodshed" you simply have to. ( "woodshed" implies that you are a tried and true musician with dead zero "distractions" ) insert exploding bomb image here
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5/27/2011 1:52 am |
if I forget happy birthday  for Sunday but I have made a note of serenading you on your birthday Bond James 700  The1tonyroneZone always to provoke  the pope on dope
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Happy Birthday!! Early, that is...but it still counts, right?  I sympathize with you on the BS he's pulling...mine is doing the same thing. His current game is trying to exclude me from my daughter's high school graduation!! He set the schedule, which I was ok with, but now that her graduation is on one of my days he's trying to change the schedule. So he's a rotten bastard. Like you, I don't badmouth their dad in front of the kids (yet he does it to me constantly) and I'm always civil to him. It drives him crazy that he can't get me to react. Thank gawd for valium and xanax!!  My exciting weekend plans include paperwork for court, trying to read a shitload of court orders which is almost impossible since judges and commissioners have worse handwriting than doctors! And if all goes well today, I'll be getting my dog back My ex stole him. I hope that your weekend goes well and that you can enjoy your birthday.
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Keep that restraint, those kids will see his stupidity for themselves. Just be sure that when he lies to them about something that you give them the truth. It might not pay off immediately, but it certainly will in the future. Both of my kids fully understand why I divorced their fathers now, and both of them tell me they are glad that I did leave now. Hang in there hun. No big plans, just family, food, and fun on the schedule. I took the weekend off till my tech gets back here. Happy Birthday!! "Shall I tell you the secret of the true scholar? It is this: every man I meet is my master in some point, and in that I learn of him." ~Ralph Waldo Emerson  
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It's not fair that RB continues to use the kids to get to you. I hope, as you say, they soon see how selfish he is. Have a great day on Sunday. I'm not sure what I'm doing yet, but it's another Bank Holiday weekend, which means Monday is an extra day off. 
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In time, they will see him for exactly what he is. Happy Birthday early peek. BehindMyBlues
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