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Second chances  

peekabooicu2ucme 46F
3728 posts
1/3/2016 11:02 am
Second chances

When someone fucks up and hurts you, but recognizes their mistake and tries to fix it, how many people give second chances?
Yes
No
Depends on the feelings for this person
Yes but with limitations
Other:Explain


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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/3/2016 11:20 am

Forgiving is a good thing. You don't have to forget, but don't keep the thing that caused the hurt constantly in mind either.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
1/3/2016 11:24 am

forgiveness is for my soul..... but I am weary the second time around


Great_eight 58M
1561 posts
1/3/2016 12:59 pm

It depends on the fuck up and the degree of hurt. I might forgive but I don't forget.


beeman699 55M
446 posts
1/3/2016 1:24 pm

Depends on nature of fuck up and ability to trust that person


tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
1/3/2016 3:17 pm

That depends on so many things. Forgiving is mostly for your benefit. Forgetting is more beneficial for them. The type of hurt makes a big difference on whether it is forgivable or not. But it is best to take a good look at the relationship and try to figure out, is it just that they got caught that is causing them to make it up to you or is it genuine concern.

I forgave a lot of things my ex-wife did but that didn't stop her from continuing on being a selfish inconsiderate individual. She finally dropped that last straw though and then it was time to get a divorce and nothing she said changed my mine.

Vive La Difference


Bdysnatcher 61M
1021 posts
1/3/2016 5:42 pm

Yes but always keep what happened in the back of your mind!!! It's always better to kiss and makeup!!!


lilluv_54 71M
103 posts
1/3/2016 7:26 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    Forgiving is a good thing. You don't have to forget, but don't keep the thing that caused the hurt constantly in mind either.
Wish had said that.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
1/3/2016 7:28 pm

this happens lots of times at work, some one screws up, admits their mistake, asks for help, and just messes up again and you get blamed for it


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
1/4/2016 7:50 am

Yes, I believe feelings can play a big part.


BOSTONGUY53 40M
129 posts
1/4/2016 8:09 am

We're all human and none of us are perfect, many of us are far from perfect!!! That being said everyone makes a mistake and as long as both parties are willing to keep things positive and moving in the right direct I believe everyone deserves a second chance


rocky2774 49M
565 posts
1/5/2016 5:52 am

Its my habit to forgive and forgive and forgive.. even if i know the person would hurt me once the reason of love has gone.. i still love full heartedly.. that's me.. and i belive, i cant change due to someone's action.. if you are water, you can turn down even a fire...

thats' my view point...

ROCK SOLID HARDY
ROCKY!!!!

rocky2774


Steelergirl84 54F
8 posts
1/5/2016 6:45 am


depending on that person. there's no yes or no. I had battled with my fiance for something he did. I thought it was over. I accepted his screw ups, we moved on and sadly enough he was killed in a car accident. To this day I am thankful we had those final 11 months


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6969phantom666 58M
492 posts
1/23/2016 9:37 am

Dont give them any

One rule Manners have some


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