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Me, Myself and I
 

My thoughts, feelings and fantasies
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Who am I?
Posted:Jun 30, 2014 6:47 pm
Last Updated:May 6, 2015 8:45 pm
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This is for those who don't know who I am or even what I am.

I am a full figured robust woman of color. I don't straighten my hair or add any color. Every gray hair is earned.

I am a woman of color in her 40's. Every wrinkle is a testament to the joys and sorrows I have had in my life.

I am a natural woman of color who is intelligent, despite the size of my breasts or the roundness of my ass. I can think logically and articulate myself in a manner in which some find surprising.

I am a woman of color with the same hopes and dreams as every other normal woman. I want the ONE. Only him.

I am an intelligent woman of color who has an empathetic side. And sometimes, just sometimes, it really sucks to be me.

I am ME. Either accept me as I am, or get the hell out of my life. My life is too important and short to be wasted on bullshit.
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Giving up
Posted:Apr 16, 2014 6:43 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2014 10:27 pm
61193 Views

I believe I am "casting in the towel". I find that there are too many liars, fakers and just all out assholes on here. The run was nice, but I am more than just tits, ass and videos on a screen.

The redundancy here is rampant. The stupidity is like a festering wound here and I am sick of it. More men think with their lower heads than the upper one, and frankly, it is as old and stale as year old bread.

Someone once posted "what is a gentleman?" on my page. When I read it, I found that all those qualities that he listed were not men that I would find here. None would respect my intelligence, or see past my "assets". None would take the time to get to know who I am or what I am about.

I was hoping to meet someone who would be able to meet me on all levels. But, sadly, that is not the case. There doesn't seem to be any "real" gentlemen here, who are freaky as well. So, after giving this some thought, I will not meet up with or entertain the possibility of meeting someone from here again. Disappointment has been my constant companion since I joined here, and I am rather tired of it.

To those I have chatted with, thank you for your support and conversations. To those I have met, may your life be happy and fulfilling.
2 Comments
Kissing
Posted:Feb 5, 2014 10:48 am
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2019 9:45 pm
61695 Views

What is kissing for you? I am finding that no one wants to kiss anymore and that is saddening to me.

So I am posting this poll to ask your opinions on why that is.

A mode of foreplay
An expression of lust/desire
A necessary evil
An unwanted act
An addiction
Other: and please explain
17 Comments , 74 votes
The Oral is an Art
Posted:Apr 22, 2013 6:38 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2014 6:27 pm
48604 Views

This just something that popped into my head. I often get requests for eating my pussy, and I am most flattered by it. But I also see that these men who request the opportunity to taste me, also make it abundantly clear that their skills are "second to none".

To me, oral is an art...a skill that is used and refined. It is customized to the individual receiving it. A man may think his skills are great, but how many of you pay attention to your partner's reaction? What works for me may not work for another woman. I may want a rougher technique than your last lover, or vice versa.

Gentlemen, how many of you have been with a woman who could not orally please you? In her mind, she has done it many times and believes her skills to be "second to none". But, if you are going through the motions and not "advising" her, then you do both of you a disservice.

In saying that, women (and men) must be more receptive to change, to ideas. As funny as it may sound, talking during eating can be a good thing. One word answers can make or break the moment. Oral as an art can mean the difference between having a single performance or an encore.
4 Comments
Blue
Posted:Mar 19, 2013 12:22 pm
Last Updated:Jun 30, 2014 2:01 pm
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