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Condom Conundrum. Rubber Rage
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Condom Conundrum. Rubber Rage I'm getting back out there in the world after a 4 year relationship where condoms were not used. Now that I have to use a condom I'm noticing that keeping it hard is not as easy as I expected. Sure I'm bursting at the seams during foreplay and when she goes down I'm raised up but when I slip the mitten on things go south. What gives? Do I have to learn how to use a condom again? Do I have to train the dude piston to operate in different conditions now? I'm hoping this doesn't take long because, and I'm sure some of you ladies can attest, it's not cool when you have the lady on all fours in front of you and she's just waiting for you to finish your pep talk with wee willie winkie there. And then your just trying to stuff a limp pork loin into the over and pretend that you have everything under control. Yea, she's not buyin' it. Damnit!! It's go time! Fortunately, she was a good sport and frustration gave way to a giggle fest and continued foreplay and frolicking. And that's cool because there's a next time in the wings. But it this psychological or just a reacquainting period? |
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Well thank you, ladies. It's nice to hear some encouragement. I've been shopping for a good fit. We'll see how long it take to get back to wyld stallyons mode.
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yeah, agreed. 'the mitten' is a must for play, but unfortunately if you've not been in one awhile it can throw off your pace. But y'know, that's what hands, lips and grinding are for - continuing to enjoy until folks are ready to rock.
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7/11/2010 4:30 pm |
I've been in a similar situation - and I think it could be explained in one of two ways. The first, as you suggested: re-acquaintance. For me, prolonging foreplay helped a good deal - putting the condom on when I was so hard it hurt. Ask your partner to help you as well - sometimes struggling with the rubber makes you lose concentration - maybe she will put it on for you instead. The second way is I have found some brands of condoms to be too tight - if you feel that may be the case, try around with a couple of different companys or types and that may be the solution for you.
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I think it may take some readjustment to get used to. I have had this issue with partners too, especially the first time when they are already nervous. I think patience and understanding on the part of your partner is the best recipe for success. Good luck! ***
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