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When you meet do you have expectations?  

redndafreak 53M/49F
19 posts
4/28/2016 8:53 am
When you meet do you have expectations?

We do not like to set expectations, although we like meeting people and getting to know them.
One thing that keeps us from meeting more people out is the perceived pressure in case things do not work out that night, or at all.

So with that in mind, when you meet a person or couple on here or any site, do you have expectations to hook up?
Yes and I would be upset if we did not
Yes but I would understand if it did not happen
No I (we) play things by ear always
No I (we) like friends first and playmates second
No I (we) never play on the 1st meeting
Other


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
4/28/2016 10:06 am

Expectations make the little things, like being human or imperfect for example, giant turn offs!When it comes to my expectations. To many dates with the aforementioned makes a person lose expectations all together.
I will say that it is what I expected here Though.The real world is so much more redeeming!

Using more than all the road!


Zugnillinuc 43M
715 posts
4/28/2016 10:11 am

The only thing I expect of someone when I first meet them is they have a good mind, an open mind and a sense of humour. the other things tend to work themselves out or not, but we both usually know after talking for a bit.

It's funny to see when people have an expectation of me, alot of times I'm not what people are expecting but I think that's because no one reads...

...they just think "Oh BBC" just a fuck toy, thugish, no brain...

...then they get to know me!


Stay_In_Reality 56M  
2209 posts
4/28/2016 10:58 am

When I last met someone from this site I had no expectations on the first date, but the second was a different and enjoyable encounter


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
4/28/2016 11:16 am

We a meeting/date is set I expect them to show up, be pretty much the same as they were on our phone conversations and to look like their pics. When those things are present things have usually ended up in an intimate encounter.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Han54boat 71M
11637 posts
4/28/2016 11:41 am

I keep my expectations low. I just don't know who they are or want.


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wankingpartner 56M  
205 posts
4/28/2016 3:29 pm


love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
4/28/2016 4:42 pm

I always say see how things go.


Bdysnatcher 61M
1021 posts
4/28/2016 8:59 pm

I met up with one person and played on our first date and then others on the second!!


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
4/29/2016 5:50 am

Going in and having expectations, many times you will end up screwing yourself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
4/29/2016 9:47 am

    Quoting  :

I attempt to determine if there is chemistry during my phone calls (not text) which is why I pretty much insist on phone calls before meeting.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


xxxsasaxxxx 49M
719 posts
4/30/2016 2:26 am

>>!


107jerry 63M
218 posts
4/30/2016 4:57 am

I have to meet the person and get a feel for their personality and our compatibility. If things go well then we can take it to the next level.


davi04038 33M
548 posts
4/30/2016 8:25 pm

Just going with the flow


lukeorlucas 43M
449 posts
5/1/2016 11:19 am

Being a free member I have to usually trade messages before trading numbers or email so usually we get to an understanding before meeting what's going on and what's expected


pineconer9 73M  
245 posts
5/2/2016 7:12 am

It all really depends on the chemistry when we do meet and it has to be mutual and get comfortable with each other and let it build that is always hot it i works out for all


montecarlo37 45M
298 posts
5/2/2016 8:24 am

I'd like to be freinds first and know people and then go down on them...


RobbyLast 40M
4 posts
7/12/2016 8:55 am

Just dropped my membership, saw you emailed me. Kick RobbyL727


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