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Secret: How to Potentially get in my Pants :)
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@ iwill... Whomever was brilliant enough to pull a joke like that off, should be commended 
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@ IKan... whatever floats your boat...
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I totally agree with you that there has to be a certain amount of trust between two individuals before one takes the next step of committing to meet and perhaps try to get to know that one better. Emailing is also good, as this way one can ask frank and open questions to that one and if there is a reply that is booth satisfying and intriqing than it means that that one person is closer to meeting you for a coffee or a drink in a public setting. Take care Enjoyed reading your blog Alan
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@ Need.. Thanks! Feel free to keep up with it and post where you see fit. And yes, there has to be a certain amount of trust 
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"I said: 'How the hell you get in them tight blue jeans?!', she said: 'For starters you can buy me a drink.' Uhhhh!" Always liked that lyric.... 
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9/21/2011 7:00 am |
After reading this post I wanted to hug you!! I have, or had, the same basic screening process and I can NOT tell you how often I'd get unfavorable responses to it. Reading someone else with the same is VERY REFRESHING!! Wonderful. ~Her
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@ skin... I like it!!! @ soul... Awwww well... Virtual hugs atcha and woohoo!! We rock! ^5
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Sounds fair. In this world you can never be too careful. Stay classy.
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@ coloso... I agree
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Well, I kinda figured the list you gave would be reasonably standard not excessive. The only one I would say might be excessive would be #1 like was said before. He says that this is a crappy site? Man, I'm on a far worse one I found first unfortunately, but what do you do? Here you can blog and chat in groups or respond to the blogs of others as a standard member which is a fair bit of activity by which you can get to know someone. However to be fair, if you have 100's of followers to your blog and have to sift through e-mails every day then that's a little different when compared to 1 a month from someone in another town. Love/Hate me for who I am, not who you think I am.
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i didnt read your blog maybe ill go back and read it.
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@ rock... If I don't get thru my list with someone, or if I lose interest before I'm don't with the list, I don't meet. So, in a way, yep.., I go thru the process too.
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Interesting Read..
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unsure that we've ever specifically made such a list, but other than the obvious "paying for the site" rule we would find most of our points the same. unsure if exploring our fantasies with others will ever take enough focus in our lives to have us paying for this site, though we do keep it on/updated enough to get a bit of access, because we are social animals after all. perhaps, if this site provided the view into this lifestyle that we know must exist and we have brushed by in past experience, we'd pay for it, but for years it's been not and ergo taking a backseat to landscapes more scenic. being 'professionals' in this lifestyle is not what our intent is. we're perhaps a little more willing to share a bit more about ourselves in the beginning than your rules suggest, some might consider naive, but our intention is to determine compatibility as soon as possible, or rather weed-out incompatibilities quickly, and just recognize the need for give/take of some information to help expose ones' gravity - see if we're going to draw each other in physically. we've forgiven a few little lies in the past, because sometimes rules conflict and a fake name is exchanged, but there's nothing more frustrating than a deceptive pervert and like you we do tend to scrutinize... the fact we're a bit misfit and looking for friends we can trust to be intimate with as a couple means our experiences are limited, and we're ok with it.
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WOW. I somehow got into your blog but I couldn't stop reading. You are a such a good writer I wish I am like you. I managed to read pretty much all of your blog. I really liked your "7 day of SEX" series.
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Thanks lonely
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Hi Soaks, I just happen to stumble onto your blog & profile. I love what you have to say in just about everything you write. Love your pixs. Keep up the good work & I will be back to read more. Please feel free to read my blog at Losnewf Thoughts
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2/28/2013 3:16 pm |
One thing is for certain......you are really well spoken! I completely love this write-up that you did for us. I think they are good rule not only for you specifically, but in general. After all...Men and Women are truly wired differently. SO sometimes...we just don't get it. (Not "it"...you know what I mean)
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6/23/2013 11:59 am |
If you don't screen...you leave yourself open to all the douche and douchette bags out there. I have had a great time and I always ask for a phone call before I even meet in person. One woman told me this was a great idea as there are many men posing as women to get their rocks off by inviting you to cam so they can see you get off,etc. The only way to cull the heard is to have a good sense of what you want and know who you are...and ask people to meet those wishes...after all...this is about your pleasure and meeting people who are like minded to add to their pleasure if the chemistry is there. So many people just don't add up to their profiles in person...and some surprise us and meet and exceed our expectations. Why not ask for exactly what you want...lol...you may just receive it and more! I have trouble with those that say they have no expectations or go in with none. I have expectations to meet great people, no drama, no stress and no complications and have fun...which I think is common sense. It doesn't always work out...but at least I have an idea of what makes me happy and so should you! I like the approach...good on you for putting it out there! The world is our oyster!
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Cool MisterMasterBlackBossDaddy
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I screen in a similar way. I rarely emailed anyone because they always reply back with "hey great, i want to see your face though". Fakes and bots ask for face pics instantly too, so its difficult to screen. I understand that ladies want to see my face first (as do i before i'd fuck) but I'm in a sensitive position and this is a small town, so I don't share those til I actually start chatting or I'm convinced someone isn't posing as something they are not. So since I almost never email first, I don't pay for membership. I like to perv pics but really if you don't email you're just paying for that, so I quit. I can find porn sites to look at pics. So assuming she has emailed me, which itself is a screening process because those with low self-confidence won't ever email first, I wait til I see some ability to carry on a conversation in the emails and/or YIM. Preferably IM because email doesn't lend itself to flowing convo. Its only at that point I'd ever ask for a face picture. Obviously I'd want them earlier but I don't ever ask for them until I find someone somehow interesting. Sometimes when she's far away, I may not ask for months; I do just like talking to someone. Usually if we've exchanged pics and can carry on a convo, the meeting is nearly a foregone conclusion. Whether we're sexually compatible comes out in the conversation so its usually great sex -- but I have been surprised. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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Very nice read!!
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Interesting method. I always wonder if I'm dealing with a picture collector when gold members requires a face and cock pictures as step 1. Just Saying. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Do you work for this site? I am not trying to be mean but, requiring someone to have a membership on here is out of the way don't you think, I had a membership on here, I didn't renew it, It wasn't about that I was cheap or strap for cash, It wasn't worth paying for fake profile, fake people, and rude immature people on here.
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I'm with you on everything except the unwillingness to send an email. If it doesn't cost you anything, in principle why would you not? I understand not wanting to send one to everybody who asks. But I like to think I've made the most of standard membership, and being told that I have to spend money by someone who gets something for free seems wrong. I'd rather spend the money on something else that neither of us gets for free. Again, I agreed with everything else you had to say. Embrace the suck
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