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Bare back or covered  

PINK_PANTHER 62F
101 posts
1/22/2015 8:37 am
Bare back or covered

Do you cover up when you are having sex with someone for the 1st time?
Yes
No
Depends




Pink Panther


citybloke1 62M

8/12/2015 1:33 am

I wont lie...I prefer bareback but will cover up if asked! I love the creampie finish! Anyway, I havent had a lot of partners and can safely say I am DD free with confidence..


foxyredhead2008 66F
99 posts
4/5/2015 3:58 pm

An HIV neg result is only good if u keep same parner....
This lifstyle dictates wrapping that piece of "meat"...
or get tested frequently if you are dumb enough to sleep around bare back

FOXYREDHEAD


foxyredhead2008 66F
99 posts
4/5/2015 3:47 pm

    Quoting  :

Applauds Purrdy...
Why the hell would anyone ride bare back with anyone in this???..
If you do, you are actually sleeping with all the women "hes" gone with...
My health is important to me...
.I dont buy the excuse of latex intollerance (since drug stores do have the latex free condoms) or, what the bare back riders want or prefer.
its 100 % condom use here no exceptions or excuses .

FOXYREDHEAD


SxyBlkScorpio1 47M

3/31/2015 7:22 pm

I don't like wearing them and would ask for proof of being disease free as I have proof. I would usually turn it down if I have to wear one.


trisha_ann_glynn 51T
1982 posts
2/28/2015 1:31 pm

The first time or anytime. I am not trying to make a baby.


hard7955 44M
2 posts
2/22/2015 10:06 am

I would definitely use one, especially now a days.


rm_BBWsRsoSexy 59M
30 posts
2/20/2015 6:40 pm

Always use condoms unless I'm in a serious relationship.


baverstock1988c 35M

2/20/2015 2:12 pm

why wouldn't you?


largereone1 51M

2/11/2015 5:32 am

Indeed!!


rm_OPeppers 65M
14 posts
2/9/2015 6:26 pm

    Quoting acekicka16:
    its hard to trust someone fully unless you know each other really well yeah bareback feels much better for both parties involved but have to use the condom at least for awhile or if all else fails get tested together then switch paperwork.
I get tested regularly and rarely is there anything written. They show you the HIV test negative marker on the vial and you call in later for the other results. On a practical matter I guess you could hold the phone up to her ear.

These tests are for free, I guess if you wanted a note in your medical file for all to see you could access your medical and get formal results but those records can be cracked so I prefer anonymous, thank you.


BlackPussyRules 59M
913 posts
2/8/2015 4:03 pm

yes but am often hoping they split


rm_1Bistan 65M
12 posts
2/8/2015 8:49 am

Virtually all the people I meet are health professionals and known by someone I know so I trust them to be disease free. Almost everybody else I meet are regular blood donors so I never use condoms.


forujules 51F  
3074 posts
2/7/2015 9:03 pm

Yes, yes, i want chylmydia, gonnorhea, hpv, genital warts , syphyllis - and i sure want to possibly get aids and become hiv positive - and most importantly i do want to possibly die because I chose to be foolish one night and not sleep with someone without a condom..

I think some need to seriously think about NOt having sex at all if they have to question wearing a condom or not...

Condoms all the time.. and if you are in the lifestyle and on this site, condoms all the time even more so.. I will never go without a condom, and if I am meeting a man off this site, condoms all the more so needs to be used...

Come leave me some thoughts forujules I'd love to read them~xo~


bradmbb 54M
14 posts
2/5/2015 10:45 pm

Personally I dont see a reason for me not to be covered. Do you stake your life on trust? Is monogamy what's really happening? Do you ever know the whole past of anyone? Being tested together helos but months can pass befire detectable. HIV was new at one time. What will the next one be?


acekicka16 42M
1 post
2/4/2015 4:21 am

its hard to trust someone fully unless you know each other really well yeah bareback feels much better for both parties involved but have to use the condom at least for awhile or if all else fails get tested together then switch paperwork.


grumpygal 68F

2/3/2015 5:05 pm

many to factor things .. myself.. used them when I was younger.. now that I'm almost 60 and still active.. never had a ssd.. its all in your generation... the groups you run in .. . but I prefer bark back.


Baldguy270 53M
2 posts
2/2/2015 7:49 pm

Cant say that I have always used a condom on the first meet, In my younger days I did a lot of foolish and reckless things sexually ( Hey who didn't!), tho even to this day I prefer that skin on skin feeling and that awesome creampie finish! But lets be honest here there are two people involved here, and I would respect her wishes if condoms are requested!


mastarckey 57M/36F
3 posts
1/31/2015 10:12 am

unfortunately, it is the only way we can see it happening, unless we get to know someone quite well, quite quickly.


curthoward03 44M

1/31/2015 4:30 am

No I only have sex with women that prefer to receive cream pies


blackman1551 45M

1/31/2015 2:57 am

of course always wear condoms


mrfortyfour4444 43M
28 posts
1/30/2015 11:49 pm

whatever she wants


chicoca530 54M
1 post
1/30/2015 12:27 pm

sexy vixen so smart and cdc wise


pjrupert 114M/114F

1/29/2015 2:41 pm

Better safe than sorry when playing on an adult site!


startthefun13 59M  
146 posts
1/28/2015 8:29 am

in this day and age its almost mandatory for the first time. i'm sorry but someone can tell you how safe they are and they got tested.who were they with between the test and you. it takes time to be able to earn trust.


seancarroll 38M
8 posts
1/28/2015 4:06 am

If it's someone I know very well but just happen to be having sex with for the first time I would consider not using a condom. In all other cases, condoms aren't optional.

Sean Carroll


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