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Gottaring, 1. Eric the Trainer, 0  

gottaring 52F
10306 posts
9/14/2012 8:00 pm
Gottaring, 1. Eric the Trainer, 0

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ABBC12356 41M
2268 posts
4/14/2016 7:24 am

GOOD


Diogenes5959 64M

9/16/2012 7:22 am

He needs to enjoy it now. Barely 5'6" is a tough road when you lose the looks. I should know. At least on the 2nd part.

Best line I've heard lately -- If my heart wasn't so busy pumping blood I'd give it to you.


mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
9/16/2012 6:57 am

gottaring replies on 9/16/2012 9:36 am:
I think you misunderstood, lol. I post them KNOWING that YOU will see them . And I'm good with that!


That is a good deal. TY.

Have a great Sunday.

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
9/16/2012 5:01 am

gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 9:44 pm:
I wouldn't have posted them unless I knew you were going to see them .


I sure hope you are kiding about that. LOL

I really enjoy them

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








gottaring replies on 9/16/2012 6:36 am:
I think you misunderstood, lol. I post them KNOWING that YOU will see them . And I'm good with that!

EnchantedViolet 59F
2795 posts
9/15/2012 1:46 pm

I think "The Adventures of Eric" could be a regular addition to your blog. Like, a weekly update on the number of women who don't respond to Eric's text requests for a date or to his in-person two word approach. But you are schooling him, and hopefully, he is paying attention in class.

He better not grow up to write "Wanna Fuck?" emails, or I'm holding you responsible!

EnchantedViolet... the Garden is in bloom again
Thou Shalt Not Fuck Thy Neighbor


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 6:43 pm:
If I ever see him on this site, it'll be a sad day indeed (mainly because he'll have no success with his current M.

citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
9/15/2012 12:52 pm

Here's a great chat-up line with a put-down:

Man: "I know a great way to burn off a few calories".

Woman: "So do I. It involves running away from you."



gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 6:43 pm:
So tell me... did you hear that somewhere else, or was it something you learned the hard way?

spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
9/15/2012 10:59 am

lets hope that he trains better than he thinks. cause this boy is fucked up. to be young and stupid again and just bounce from one body to the next. he is a pussy seeking missle and is just really looking for anyone to share his brand of fun with. he is right you are a total hotty though. i will post my football picks later, happy that the pack beat the bears though.


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 11:06 am:
I don't think he's sleeping around, per se. He has multiple casual girlfriends, and they (supposedly) all know about each other- there's nothing wrong with that, I guess. Now, if he were just a hound dog looking for a bone and didn't care where he got it? That's a different story.

But I'm loving this, Spidey. His idealism and youthful energy...just listening to him plan what restaurant he wants to take these ladies to and what he thinks he's going to wear...it's all so cute, lol.

FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
9/15/2012 9:59 am

Ah, the wonder of youth vs the wisdom of age. It will always be this way.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 11:10 am:
This whole experience has really shown me how old and cynical and jaded I've become. I miss my youthful exuberance- that fun side of life. I miss dating and dressing up for a special man- the butterflies and nervousness.

Don't get me wrong, the benefits of marriage FAR outweigh the thrills of the single life (from what I can recall of my single days). But those little things that drove me crazy (in a good way) and made me grin like a fool? Yeah. I miss them.

SuperNovaMarvel 47M
3464 posts
9/15/2012 9:07 am

Ah to be young and dumb all over again. I'm still a bit dumb, but old enough to realize I'm being an idiot when it happens. Let him be, he will find his way. It's all about trial and error, and if he is a cute fit guy, that probably gets him in the door before he even opens his mouth. But with lines like that, no wonder he's having trouble.

"I exist as I am, that is enough." - Walt Whitman


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 11:12 am:
If he were half as smart as he is good looking he'd be a force to reckon with, that's for sure. But the girls he's chasing (I won't call them women yet), aren't concerned with his intellect so that explains his success rate, lol.

leftbehind62 62M  
2121 posts
9/15/2012 8:47 am

The sad thing is this young girl may actually think he is great for saying that to her! Lmao! Younguns! They have no clue sometimes nowadays!!


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 11:13 am:
Truth be told, if she falls for that crap I'm going to start buying my coffee elsewhere, lol.

39lawless 58F
6864 posts
9/15/2012 8:13 am

this made me laugh...having a 24 year old (daughter, not boyfriend lol), it would be easy to get all uppity and say I've figured it out and so you need to absorb my wisdom. While I do this on occasion, I really try hard not to...her innocence and hope are very cool. She helps me be not so cynical and that's a good thing. I love that you know he will get this one day...and I think that the perspective you are sharing with him will surely help. Nice job!

Always tell the truth
Use kind words
Keep your promises
Giggle and laugh
Be positive
Love one another
Always be grateful
Forgiveness is mandatory
Try new things
Say please and thank you
Say your prayers
Smile

~Author unknown


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 11:27 am:
You know how sometimes you can just tell that a person is too far gone into their own personality to make a change? Whether for better or worse- some people are just so damn happy that nothing can bring them down. Others are bitter and angry and that's the way they're gonna stay.

Well, Eric is still a wild card- that's why I think this time is so important for him. And maybe I'm invested because I see so much of myself and my younger days in him. Or perhaps I'm just vicariously enjoying his youth...dunno. But if I thought he really believed the crap he's spewing, I wouldn't bother trying to help him.

You can't fix stupid.

sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
9/15/2012 6:06 am

He's your trainer....so I presume you're paying him??? I think it should be the other way around for it looks like he's getting great training from you!!!

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 11:31 am:
Long story short, his current rate is only good for one month of one-on-one sessions. After that I need to switch to group training to stay at the same price point. Thing is, once we do that we lose the ability to shoot the shit and have the interaction we do now.

I think the friendship we've built is important enough to him that he might consider keeping me at the same price point for one-on-one training. So I guess it's a barter, in a way .

full_fill_us6 38M/34F  
14 posts
9/15/2012 5:39 am

How true it is if guy/girls could just be there self from day one. Everyone always feels they have to play a roll or use a line to get on base. 1st there has to be attraction and then there has to be personality. Its a real let down to find out that all the lines and the person you thought you were meeting was all a ploy to just see how far they can get. Its a good thing we all have the in site and know it is truly up to us if we want to fall for the weak lines and sweet nothings we hear from strange people that have the hopes of finding that connection. Because in the end that's all we all want, a connection with someone to be able to have fun, laugh, be close, and cum many times with. Be yourself, really, be yourself. There is someone out there for us all. Now, lets all take our pants off!


gottaring replies on 9/16/2012 2:26 pm:
What's the harm in just being yourself? Even if I happen to think you're an idiot, there will be ten more women around the corner who think you're adorable, right? So why not hold out for the woman who will appreciate you the way you are?

It so simple on the surface, but so complicated in practice.

Thanks for stopping by and commenting .

buxombbw4u 56F
16144 posts
9/15/2012 5:25 am

A friend of mine was just telling me that he finds approaching women challenging enough without worrying about throwing her a line. That if a woman is looking for that, they had better not look his way. He finds that the best way to meet interesting women is just to be friendly. (I can't speak for all women, but it worked on me.).

Maybe that is the difference between 25 and 50.

Keep raising that boy right, GR!

2022... it HAS be better, right?!


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 9:59 am:
I'm so hard to please in that aspect, Buxie. I admit that I don't want a guy with smooth come-ons and a cocky swagger. But I DO want a man who is savvy enough to know what to say and when to say it. Rarely do the two jive.

mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
9/15/2012 5:05 am

I get get caught staring looking at girls bums all the time.

I don't blush all the time. Mostly just smile if they are smiling back at me.

You have caught me looking at your HNW pics.

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 6:44 pm:
I wouldn't have posted them unless I knew you were going to see them .

JustHere2Cam 56M
14229 posts
9/15/2012 4:07 am

People who put on a certain act when dating -- pretending to be what they think the other person wants -- are only setting themselves up for failure. At some point, their true self will start to show through, and if it isn't who the other person thought they would be, the relationship will fall apart.


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gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 6:49 pm:
I've been there...it's not fun to be on the receiving end. People who manufacture false personas forget one simple thing: They created this new, better personality for a reason- because they want people to fall for them. And people WILL fall for it. And they WILL end up getting hurt when the truth comes out.

What they write off as being a manifestation of their insecurity is sometimes just plain sociopathy- a complete disregard for the feelings of others.

BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
9/14/2012 10:42 pm

You are too nice to that boy.


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 6:49 pm:
Aw come on, BEBBW! I'm just doing my duty for womankind!

PurplePeach72 51F
9194 posts
9/14/2012 10:42 pm

It is such fun to see boys turn into men before your eyes and know that your confidence, your sexuality, hotness and wisdom is helping him be a better lover for future women. Thank you for the public service. My bets are on you.
Kisses,
LA


Kisses,
LA


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 6:49 pm:
Thanks Lee Ann .

lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
9/14/2012 8:59 pm

Awesome post! Look forward to more about you and the trainer.
You may weigh more than Eric but I got you beat!!


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 6:51 am:
He's not a bodybuilder- he's barely 5'6 and lean, ripped muscle- he doesn't weigh that much, lol. He makes it sound like any woman who weighs more than he does ought to be sporting a 'WIDE LOAD' sticker on her ass. I'm maybe ten pounds heavier than he is- and most of that is in my boobs .

Indi297 55F

9/14/2012 8:38 pm

Thinking there is no hope for the boy. Yes I said boy. There are two trains of thought here... bare with me.

One. You can be younger and have an old soul. Or at least be mature for your age. I believe it is a learned behavior from our family or the people we were surrounded with growing up. If he kept it real & showed some depth, the girl would be falling all over him.

Two. You can be younger and just "younger". The mentality is shallow and although there is forethought on his part, it is, not substantial or have much merit. It is the thought of how can I get this chick to like me - or at least play with my one eye willie?

Mr Eric sounds like great eye candy but I think he needs some more schooling from the University of Gottaring!


gottaring replies on 9/15/2012 6:58 am:
Eric is the epitome of youthful bravado. It's actually a joy to listen to him because I know that, one day, he's gonna GET IT. But in the meantime it's so refreshing to see someone who is unscathed by the rampages of time. He's not yet cynical and exhausted by the process. Every woman is a new opportunity, every night has potential to be 'the night he meets Ms. Right'.

He's not as much of a player as it might appear. He's just a single guy, having fun. His candy store is WIDE OPEN and he hasn't been hit with a cavity just yet. Let him enjoy this .

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