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It's All About BDSM  

gottaring 52F
10306 posts
9/21/2012 9:19 am
It's All About BDSM

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When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load...


ABBC12356 41M
2268 posts
4/14/2016 7:21 am

GOOD


whoisagentj 54M
6060 posts
9/25/2012 11:48 am

If that is the case, then when we went out for Saturday at the Chicago Bash you were probably enjoying making me blush like crazy with all of the nuttiness going on that night.

Who can you call on to save the day?

Why none other than...


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CampoGirl 58F
43434 posts
9/23/2012 5:57 pm

I totally agree about BDSM guys, (As YOU see them) Love bashful men

Now on my Blog: 👄 New Pictures 👓


Diogenes5959 64M

9/22/2012 8:54 am

As a BDSM I find it wonderful that there are other BDSM lovers out there. Yeah, we're shy, silly, maybe dorky, definitely clueless at times, but we're genuine and surprisingly confident (we just don't show it like the egoist).

There is a Paradox of the BDSM though; sometimes those same traits can be a hinderance later in the relationship. Go figure, nuthin's easy.


gottaring replies on 9/23/2012 7:23 am:
I've seen BDSM's morph onto egotistical assholes (not referring to you) once they've been with a true lover of the species. After having never been told exactly how delicious they are, they start to believe their own press. It's sad.

As to whether it complicates things later on? I can see where it would. The BDSM lovers of the world understand that you don't know what to do, but we appreciate that you are at least willing to try. Recognizing that things aren't going right is the first step to fixing them, but justifying perceived indifference with being awkward and dorky isn't the way to go.

spiderj72 51M
7898 posts
9/21/2012 7:47 pm

i could be right in that number of dorky silly men.


gottaring replies on 9/23/2012 7:26 am:
Spidey...you are the best example I have of the species . You are a sweet and silly man with just enough confidence to pull it off without appearing arrogant. I adore you, Babe .

missingu2012 74M
3135 posts
9/21/2012 6:49 pm

    Quoting missingu2012:
    ooooo BDSM!!! gasp!

    Original Charter member, with Lifetime honorary membership privileges, to your BDSM club!


that doesn't sound right! I mean your TYPE of BDSM club.
I blush more than any wine could ever do!
I think I even blushed when I first came out of my Momma!


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
9/21/2012 12:47 pm

It's always the ones who don't know it who are the sexiest.


SuperNovaMarvel 47M
3464 posts
9/21/2012 12:18 pm

Ummm.... It's a double edged sword. It depends on the quality of the woman I suppose. I got taken advantage of because the woman was selfish, but I was always so willing to make her happy.
I like this post though, because even if a man is confident, or self-aware, they can still be somewhat shy and reserved in certain situations. And by your definition of BDSM, I suppose I have been into it most of my life! Aye aye aye!


"I exist as I am, that is enough." - Walt Whitman


hrumcio 45M
28 posts
9/21/2012 12:16 pm

rather not for me ...


Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
9/21/2012 12:15 pm

Candy hearts, I've only given them twice in my life, once when I was 13, once when I was 43 - the 13y/o girl mocked me, the last one loves everything I do for her...maybe appreciation for the little things improves with age...


mflater1 73M  
50414 posts
9/21/2012 11:57 am

LOL I am not into that.

I am still quiet and shy after all these years.

But once they get to know me I never stop talking.

A women can talk me into any thing.

Have a great week end.

This is not meant to offend any one in any way.








PurplePeach72 51F
9194 posts
9/21/2012 11:41 am

I'm the proud spouse of a BDSM too. 6 more months before I get him back. Hope you have a great weekend.
Kisses,
LA


Kisses,
LA


FMAOPLS 70F
27112 posts
9/21/2012 11:26 am

You are SO right, GR. There are a lot of men out there, who have no idea of their high sexiness quotient, just because they have been led to believe they don't fit society's definition of "hunky, good looking, buff and young".

Sexy is So Much More than what can be seen with the eyes. It is in the mind, heart and soul. Kudos to you for recognizing this in your husband, and for letting him know you appreciate it.

Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.


gottaring replies on 9/21/2012 12:31 pm:
I wrote a post a million years ago about the men who post photos for HNW. It was inspired by them, but it segued into thoughts of the men who literally have no clue as to how sexy they are.

Hump Day, Indeed

(If you have time)

missingu2012 74M
3135 posts
9/21/2012 11:01 am

ooooo BDSM!!! gasp!

Original Charter member, with Lifetime honorary membership privileges, to your BDSM club!


buxombbw4u 56F
16144 posts
9/21/2012 10:46 am

How sweet!

2022... it HAS be better, right?!


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
9/21/2012 10:28 am

I'm just a BSM! \8
Would you let me tug on your pony tail!
I totally surprised my wife by planning our 25th anniversary, bought her a ring, and even had "original" frowers from the decorated car as decorations!!
Have a great weekend!


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
9/21/2012 10:00 am

Not sure which is more touching. That he gave you the massaging foot bath or that you appreciated it and let him know.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


gottaring replies on 9/21/2012 12:24 pm:
I will NEVER pass up the chance to let the people I love know exactly why I love them. Taking someone for granted is one of the most hurtful things you can do to them.

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