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If You're Happy and You Know it....
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If You're Happy and You Know it.... ...go sit somewhere else. Ha! Just kidding! I could use a little more happy these days, dontchaknow? But I'm not entirely down in the dumps either- I have moments of absolute JOY! Rereading that, I realize that I now sound bipolar. Meh. I've been called worse by the voices in my head  . But let's talk about HAPPINESS... Not too long ago, I posted the following tweet: "Ever wonder if you gave all your happiness to someone who didn't know what to do with it?" The response was overwhelming (for the Twitterverse, that is). Lots of ladies commented that, yeah-- they knew EXACTLY what I meant. And I have a feeling that it might hit a nerve with some folks here as well. See, y'all remember THAT GUY? A three-year saga that began here and ended...well, let's not discuss that part. I'm convinced that I gave all my Happy to him and he treated it like...well, he treated it as though he DESERVED it. And in the beginning, he did. Remember the photos, the erotica, the giddy musings about what a smitten kitten I had become? He earned that...for the first six months. Later on, not so much. And now I'm kicking myself because I'm longing for the Smitten Kitten days once again, but I just don't have the energy or optimism anymore. I want a man who will bring that side of me to the forefront once again. A muse who will evoke that craving in me- that desire to please him. A guy who not only deserves my attention, but gives as good as he gets. Wishful thinking? Perhaps. I'm a bit older, wiser, more cynical and jaded now. But maybe he's out there... Bonus points if he has a big penis  .Good morning, LesbianPersonals. I've missed you  When it comes to sex, I need a STRONG connection. Otherwise, the page just keeps buffering and takes FOREVER to load... |
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GOOD
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Missed you too, GR! I'm looking for a needle in a haystack (a dude who doesn't have an Asian fixation, not looking for a supermodel even tho he's an average Joe, is OK with curvy, as opposed to the rail-thin girls that roam freely on this isle AND who has a certain level of intelligence, so yeah, I'm dealing with a VERY tiny percentage) 
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Im glad to see you posting sugar.. we all missed you terribly. As for THAT GUY... personally I wanna put his balls in a vice and then squeeze really really hard... and thats just for starters. Im kinda protective abt my friends ya know? You are wiser yes, but hardly jaded and cynical... The fact that you are here and talking about what you want and need tells me sexy, erotic (And I mean that in the most hetro of ways), wonderful, kickass woman is still there. Let her open the door slowly in her own time...Im thinking shes gonna find her mojo again  "You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.
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3/18/2015 8:49 pm |
And we've missed you too. Nice to see you posting again.
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You mean a boner penis. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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I always feel a bit of smitten kitten when I see a new GR post! In a strictly heterosexual, girl crush way.  Nice to read you. And I cannot conceive of a world where you are jaded and cynical. 2022... it HAS be better, right?!
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somewhere I wrote about givers and takers and I am sure that I have talked to you about it a well. HE took and took and eventually there is nothing more for you to give. You are empty and need to be refilled. Try to find a giver, I think I have one and it is effing amazing.
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May you find your happy soon. I cant think of anyone more deserving of being happy. (Or of encountering a big penis )Take it easy, guns are cold. 
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Hey - maybe shouldn't give happiness away - maybe it should more like a night out at a fancy restaurant - he gets the beef and you get the fish - and you take a bite from his plate and he takes a bite from yours - you share the soup course and the appetizer course and the entre equally (of course you get the entire dessert). Maybe it should be like that - with a fancy menu with no prices - and those wide eyes and crooked smiles - as you look around to make sure you two really should be there. Too many times - that scene fades to a Denny's with clanking cups and saucers and some tough cut of something that used to be meat. But hey, you'll know you've found the right one, when you're sharing equally even those grey, covered in goop portions. Waitress! Can I get a refill on this iced tea??? Waitress! Can you believe how rude she is... Cheers, LT
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Older and wiser, I hope so (well at least the wiser part!) but jaded and cynical? I don't think so; perhaps just more realistic. If you were jaded and cynical you wouldn't even believe that there is man out there who can bring out that part of you again. Cynical and jaded has no hope, not even a glimmer. The Smitten Kitten" is a neurochemical(sp) response that lasts 3-6 months at the most. After that, as my peeps in the (academic) hood might say, "that's when shit gets real, yo". And that sounds like that's what happened with Mr Mystery. The next time, you'll be more aware, be more assertive in asking for what you want, both in and out of bed, and be better able to asses what you need to do if you don't get it. Older might be debatable, but wiser is always a good thing.
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 Good to see you! "A full blown basket of hash browns with a steaming cup of 'WTF?" on the side" Enter my Lair: spudsy1000
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I have become far more cynical over the years. I don't know that the happily ever after type relationship even exists. I would settle for a warm feeling every once in a while and someone that actually seems to care about me and what I feel some of the time. Glad you're back, missed you too... Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!
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And I thought size doesn't matter... bonus points? Fer reals? Welcome back!
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