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How many people on here are just looking for sex and how many are looking for a LTR  

Gorean4U 57M
11 posts
10/4/2007 8:36 am

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8/22/2009 8:01 am
How many people on here are just looking for sex and how many are looking for a LTR

Some people on LesbianPersonals say they are just looking for sex, but when you talk with them they are realy looking for a LTR. Dois seem fair lure you in with sex and and then hold onto you for a LTR.

rm_nsaasn 44F
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16 posts
10/4/2007 9:08 am

 Well I'm looking for sex only, happy with my life on other parts.


TnWitchyWoman 63F
6843 posts
10/4/2007 9:09 am

 I'm here looking for a long term relationship that involves LOTS of sex. I try to make it as clear as possible to anyone that crosses my path EXACTLY what I dream of finding. The thing is every relationship starts somewhere and neither of you can tell where it is going to go...or not go. You can only express what you want and then go with the flow. If someone is looking for long term and invites someone in that is only looking for sex then they have to know one of three things is going to happen and BE PREPARED for it to go any way.

1. They are lying to themselves and have only themselves to blame when the other person moves on.

2. They will find that this person isn't want they wanted and move on themselves.

3. Something happens and it changes into being exactly what they want...whether it's that they change and decide a sex only relationship fits their needs or whether the other person decides they want something more with this person.

But it ALL boils down to being a crap shoot in how life turns out for anyone. If you didn't take a chance either way then where would one be?


bemylast1stkiss 44M

10/4/2007 9:09 am

 I honestly can't say I'm actively looking for an LTR, but I'm not particularly looking for just sex either. That said, this past Christmas holiday, I finally met a woman I'd been talking with for several months, whom I'd become--I'd say--pretty good friends with. I cared for her but she was well aware of my situation and my lack of desire to want anything more than friendship. Well, the initial night of meeting was ok (I spent the weekend with her) and we had fun. After spending most of the day with her the next day however, things became a bit different. She'd told me before she wasn't looking for an LTR, but that night during sex, she wanted me to commit to her. It freaked me out a bit because she was the one who initiated sex, but I had to tell her no. It hurt, her obviously more than me, but it was the right thing to do. Had I known things would turn out the way they did, I probably think we would've made a great couple though. But the timing wasn't right.
What doesn't kill us, makes us stronger. Unless it was stupid. Then your dumb-ass deserves to die.


MandyBoop 62F
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10/4/2007 9:36 am

 Neither ltr or just sex! Since my husband decided to end our great 25 yrs together for another woman- (A former callgirl) ltr are scary. And looking just for sex would means a person is so shallow.


rm_dirtyminx07 54F

11/9/2007 4:48 pm

 Well am on for non strings short term since just coming out of a relationship, it works for me with the right person and have met some great people on here, am neither shallow or closed minded and every body on this site is on here for different reasons.

Miss minx.


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