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What a guy should know  

1ezmore 55M
6 posts
10/22/2014 6:04 am
What a guy should know

JUST A THOUGHT FOR THE SINGLE MAN:
From my experience and listening to the horror stories from couples about single men,I would like to offer my advice to single men who want to be with couples:
First and foremost remember we are a dime a dozen here on LesbianPersonals.
If you are homo-phobic do not contact a couple.
If you cannot preform with another man being present do not contact a couple.
If your initial contact is 5 lines or less,chances are you will not get a response.
In your initial contact,do not tell a couple what you want to do to the lady.
Tell them a little about yourself.Be respectful,humorous and compliment them on the things on their profile that interests you.
Be honest,remember you are hoping to meet them.
MEETING:
Remember you only have one person's schedule to plan around.A couple has themselves plus their 's schedule to think about so be patient.
Be discreet about meeting but do not ask to meet in your car or a parking lot or on a street.Instead try a bar,restaurant or coffee shop.
Let them know that the only expectation you will have of them is meeting.
Show up,show up,show up.If you are delayed or an emergency happens,notify them immediately.If you do not notify them,the only way you will get a second chance is if you have a death certificate.
Upon meeting chances are you will be nervous,so will they.This is normal.To overcome this have a drink,be humorous talk about things other than the lifestyle.Once everyone is relaxed and comfortable try flirting.
Do not ask for their address or where they work.They will tell you only if they want to
Engage hubby in your conversation.After all he is part of the experience and represents 50% of the decision.
If you are interested let them know and suggest a possible location.
Ask them if they are interested then leave and go to the washroom or somewhere.This gives them time to discuss it privately as opposed to putting them on the spot.Always respect their decision and do not attempt to change their minds.
PLAYING:
Ask them for their doe's , don't s and maybes. Inquire about their fantasies with a single man.
Some times you will be required to make the first move to get the action started, but the lady is the one in charge so let her control how things progress. I find standing behind the lady rubbing her arms and caressing her neck to be effective.
Remember you are there to compliment hubby in pleasuring the lady--not to compete with him.For hubby it is a celebration of his security with his lady.You are not there because he needs help.
Never assume that you can do everything to the lady that the husband does to her.
Do not try and convince them that they should try something if they already told you no. ie. anal.
Bring your own condoms.Chances are they do not use it between themselves so why should they have any.
Try your best to not climax before the lady.
If you are enjoying it let hubby know how lucky he is to have such a lady.
If hubby wants to watch or participate respect his decision.
Sense what really turns them on and focus on that.

AFTER THE PLAYING:
Let them know if they would like to get together again for them to contact you,not you contacting them.This prevents you from putting pressure on the time you are together with them, and that you do not become a part of their lives.
Never ever ask the lady to meet you alone,behind hubby's back.
Remember the lady may have gone to bed with you but it is hubby she wants to wake up to.
Let them know that if you saw them in public with their friends that you will make eye contact but never approach them.This will prevent placing them in an awkward situation with their friends.They can approach you.
Ask them if you could write a testimonial to vouch for their character so that others will know that they are real and not game players.Do not be offended if they say no.Some people like to keep it private.
Finally remember the first advice--We are a dime a dozen.

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