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Couples we guy are not all assholes
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Couples we guy are not all assholes THE RESPECT FOR COUPLES: Couples: We know we are a dime a dozen,but that does not mean that we will sit around waiting and planning our evening for you to respond.We have to pursue other options until someone is committed to meeting us. If we contact you on Monday for a Sat meeting and we have received no response by Wed,even though you have been online, then we will contact others.If we contact someone and they have committed to meeting us and then you contact us on Friday saying that you want to meet on Sat,do not be offended if we tell you that we have commitments that we have to honor. If we contact you very respectfully and politely(if your profile says that you are looking for men) and you do not respond at all (even if it is a polite "no thank you,I am not interested") then we are left to believe that A) You were raised by wolves and have no manners  You are a lazy person--too lazy to respond,orC)You are game players.If you possess any of those qualities then we do not want to waste our time pursuing you. If you are not interested a polite quick reply would suffice.We then add your handle to the Block list so that we will not bother you again.Believe me we will respect you more for that. If you are interested but cannot commit to meeting on a certain day,then please say so and we will understand and perhaps try and work around your schedule.Think of it like being at a dance and you ask someone to dance.How would you feel if they just ignored you and not responded.It is simple courtesy folks.You advertised yourselves and someone responded respectfully to you. If you were a business and you did not respond to a customer then you cannot blame that person for going elsewhere. Contacting us: Contact us the way you would like to be contacted. Do not contact us if it is just hubby wants to see his wife with another man.It has to be 100% from both. Let us know your schedule so that we can work around it. Let us know beforehand if you want to take pictures.Do not bring out a camera in the middle of playing and start taking pics. If we meet at a bar/restaurant and you know that there is absolutely no chemistry tell us immediately.Believe me we will appreciate it and respect you even more. I am writing this because I think it is important that we all look at it from everyone's perspective,that way meeting can be more rewarding. Couples,once again we know we are a dime a dozen,but then again so are you when you try and pursue that elusive single woman.Treat us the way you would like that single woman to treat you.Think about it |
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very nicely put blog from the single guy perspective...and we agree. to blow our own horn, we see ourselves as hosts - there is alot of pressure on the 2man, especially on the first meet, so we try to create a no pressure, no worries meet - we usually host, we have transportation, we can afford to buy drinks, we provide condoms, etc - all he has to bring is a positive attitude. we already know what the options are for the evening in terms of sexual play and specific sexual acts, or if its a meet only. our rule with pictures is to swap cameras - both sides can then be assured of the content the other party is leaving with. we let him know a shower is available, and the time things will wind down. if we are meeting for the first time, its usually in public and between us we have a signal if both parties are interested and we convey that to the guy as soon as we've made that decision. We then have a private conversation again about the evenings events, limits, rules, mutual expectations, etc. our preference is our hotel room and the male on this end makes sure the conversation flows well, we ensure the otherwise charged atmosphere is low key and that he feels welcome and ease any assumed nerves - some guys are more nervous than others, so we go with the flow - the male on this end will drive activities until a natural, easy, mutual play occurs. we communicate well and verbally encourage the 2male to "dig in" and enjoy. as in all such scenarios, the females needs are always attended to first and if necessary we will verbalize to the 2male that its his turn - or how what act we wish to do to finish off the eve - if another go around is in the cards, we communicate that too. We dont play much, not ken/barbie, but we are friggin awesome....  where we dont do as well is replying quickly. the male here does all the communication, blogs, etc....and some nights he just wants to veg...so it is not uncommon that it takes us more than a week to reply to an initial email or to follow up. sometimes it can take longer...we dont play in our town...we travel...the logistics for us are so overwhelming it can be a couple of months between play dates...hey the male here doesnt return family calls either...so its nothing offensive. but we do understand this adds to the frustration of single men. not all men here are assholes, and not all couples/women are pretentious boars that treat males like a dildo. the best of both groups can quickly wean out the players from the fakes, the selfish from the engaging. best of luck
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Don't string the number 2 guy out. You know if you want to with him so let him know soon and then take your time.
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