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Some people (usually those who don't have a life) want to feel superior and put others down for not living as they think they should. Screw them and let's live and enjoy... Able202
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Bravo! It's a shame that in this day and age this still has to be explained to others. Women's sexuality doesn't brand them as sluts. It doesn't mark them because they post a naked picture of themselves, and it is unfair to attack because someone is insecure or jealous. My second wife was attacked on a date. She didn't ask for it. Nobody asks for it. No woman in history asked for it. You could walk down the street naked at midnight and you wouldn't be asking for it. The only person to blame is the attacker and the judgmental assholes blaming women for their sexuality, Thanks for posting this.  Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated. 
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I "agree" with you, Missy. I don't like or ever say the "S" word! 
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Those who shame, usually don't have anything to show. Bravo! You are doing it right - taking a stand instead of closing up and leaving. Let the bully leave. Let him/her be driven off the site. Visit my blog It's a Mad, Mad, Mad World of NaughtyInSO, leave a comment, become a watcher. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ LIVE AND LET LIVE Be happy! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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Good post, Missy. I'm with you on this. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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Good post, Missy. Slut shaming is petty and I think it's a way for small-minded and ignorant people who are trying to level the playing field.
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Bullying is a real trigger for me and I admit I do not react well to it. I saw too much of it in my work only then I had the license to do something about it and did when I could. You and the top blogger and a handful of others are my oldest friends on here. I hope I've been a supporter or even a shoulder once in a while and I consider you all friends, but this bullshit needs to end. This site is not Free Speech. It is a private site, they can censor anything they choose to, so their argument this person has not broken any rules is not true. They can censor for deliberate attacks anonymous or not just as most of us have been censored for some inoffensive remark they were too politically correct to allow, but apparently attacking women for doing on a sex site what is expected on a sex site is okay with them. Anyway, I am not jumping ship immediately, because I have too many other friends on here, but if they get driven off too I won't hang around and watch what everyone else built on here torn down by one fool whatever there gender choice of sexual orientation. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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Missy, I don't know either of the two people involved, don't think I have ever left a comment on either of their two blogs. But I am sure you could tell that I was not about to have the "slut shamming" as everyone has been calling it go quietly into the night without answering for it. What she had to say could have been said without all that generated hate that was not only directed at the blogger I stood up for, but also towards all the other people, as groups, that she blatantly attacked. Just no need for it.
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I so agree with you.
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Amen to that sister..... Who the hell is anyone to judge someone else..... Mark xxx
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I know it probably makes me a bad person, but while I don't want to shame anyone for their sexuality or how they wish to express it, I do want to be allowed to laugh at people who do "rate my cunt" posts. Also, and I really can't stress this too much, if I see someone do something I feel is stupid, and I call them stupid for doing it, then that by itself is not "bullying". While I will defend their right to post photos of their cunts, I reserve the right to not be impressed by such behaviour (Though the next time I see a "rate my cunt" post I will refrain from giving my honest opinion, because that got me banned  )
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I totally agree of course, and anyone that has been around me could confirm that I'm as respectful as men come. But there is another (much more fun) aspect to it too - slut shaming ladies that get turned on by the act – something like offering them up as sex toy, even if it is never followed through. I Got Pounded Jewelry on HNW The New Food Pyramid Courtesy of Mom [post 3312759] My Private Blog – Tell me All your Secrets
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5/15/2015 7:09 am |
There is nothing noble being superior to your fellow man, True nobility is being superior to your former self. Ernest Hemingway. I'm so tired of all the misdirections people follow from the world around them because their to lazy to think for themselves, and what you describe in your post is what culminates from that. so sad how our race of beings are. Please, just call me diggy.
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Say true, sister! Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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Jealousy (the green-eyed monster) certainly plays a big part in slut-shaming.
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Here..Here!! Great post Missy!!!!! Words well put!!
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I am a simple guy so I will say this, I like "sluts" they make life infinitely more interesting. Don't compromise yourself! You are all you've got!
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5/22/2015 10:00 am |
Missy I couldn't read this post without adding my two cents: first; one of the first replies to your post you showed how very mischievous you are. Don't ever take yourself TOO seriously; it will only invite people to start taking their shots at you, and we both know how THAT'S going to end second; your comment about your daughter. I agree most strongly with that, but what I thought about almost immediately was how very lucky she is to have a Mother who thinks like that: 'BRAVO' finally; you're so VERY correct in identifying 'slut shaming' as about power, and not sex. And it's about giving weak assholes who probably get the only power in their lives when they plug in a lamp cord, and they really never did anything to EARN that power (although any 'power' over an unwilling victim is NEVER a good thing). I have a brain injury because I used to stand up physically to bullies, and I STRONGLY feel that we have to do the same whenever we are challenged; your doing so with 'words' is 'right on'; again: 'BRAVO' (and the fact that I have a 'brain injury'??? Some jerks obviously do not have the parts to have one also)
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5/24/2015 6:55 am |
Hell yeah, slut shaming = a man's sad reaction to feeling inferior to a beautiful woman's confidence!
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How can anyone say that dressing, acting and being promiscuous is not "intended" to be provocatively inviting. No matter how we state it, the act of dressing and acting like something is again "an intended act" to attract a particular type of personality and interest. Equally, while judging a person does not define them, how people dress and act definately defines who they are. In this case and in this context, dressing, acting and being promiscuous is to project a particular personality and interest. Its very different than a woman who dresses and carries herself as a lady. Again, to project a particular personality and interest - she (the lady) is neither a slovenly or lewd woman. Slut is just the noun attached to the woman who is promiscuous, obscene and vulgar in how she presents herself to the public. Shame: 1 n the painful feeling arising from the consciousness of something dishonorable, improper, ridiculous, etc., done by oneself or another. If a woman is so uncomfortable with her choices, then its not the recognition of an outsider that makes her feel shame. Certainly not by the definition of shame above. btw: The equivilent word(s) for a man doing the same things begin with "womanize". Perhaps the lack of shame, the take it or leave it attitudes and the carelessness in being a human being in today's society is the problem. After all, these may be the same people who say manners and character (not personality) are no longer important in the evolved human existance. Notwithstanding, they are simply being acknowledged for and how they are presenting themselves. Maybe we (humans) are not as evolved as people think.
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Quoting you: "Finally, judging others isn't human nature. It is asshole nature and is created and encouraged by society. Mindfulness teaches to observe without judgement." I actually do think that judging is human nature. It's based on personal perspective, that is, what we find appealing and what we don't. My note about judging has nothing to do with the topic of slut-shaming. For instance, we're often told to never judge a book by its cover, yet I have done so based on visual appeal. The same is true for wines. I might like the style of one label over another. I wasn't taught that. Society didn't impose that on me. It's simply based on what I find visually appealing and that which I don't. Now, in regards to slut-shaming, no one should ever be shamed for being a slut, be they male or female or other.
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I'm not familiar with trans, but regarding women it's become a culturally accepted gender issue. Women get shamed for the same thing men get praised for. Other way around when you consider something like abstaining. Then women are respected, and men are teased. Regardless of your sex or lack there of our society is confused and twisted when it comes to gender roles.
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Good post, as men are studs and women are sluts mentality sadly still exists.
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Kudos to you! That was very well said. Thank you. Dreaming2nite 
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I followed the link in your contribution to the symposium. I thought to read (and see ...) more about the slutwalks. Probably done before by bloggers (I did a post myself) ? Who cares ? The event is so important and linked to this so terrible word the site won't allow it, r*pe. Same with the way one dresses, I thought there would be pore contributions like "a sexy look is not an invite for everybody !" I'd like to add something, though : there are men marching (one can be seen in onpic #4). Mostly BF and without a slutty outfit ... not a direct concern ... except in Seoul where boys showed like cosplay. Oh, and something else, according to the saying "if one uses the dagger of his tongue against you, do not use that dagger in return as long as you can use the gun of your smile". This march is full of wrath but expressed in a funny way, with inventive slogans and joyfully ! I just wish these walks to disappear with the vanishing of its purpose, but long live this spirit
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