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The Inappropriate Temptation of "No married men (except you, of course)"
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The Inappropriate Temptation of "No married men (except you, of course)" All the flirting invites temptation. You talk and get to appreciating each other. "I like you. You're not like other married men." You meet for coffee. It goes so well you kiss her when you say your goodbye-for-nows to each other. She returns the kiss and later e-mails about how much she liked it. Then, oh great opportunity! I'll have a whole weekend alone, free to do whatever I want. "Can I look forward to an invitation, then?" she asks. Hell yes, I want to include you in my weekend. We make plans. Starting with dinner on Friday night. "Should I plan on spending the night?" she wants to know. Let's be open to it but not plan on it.  The time comes. I check into a hotel not far from her house and we have dinner. "Shall we go back to my room and do what we've been dreaming of?" And we do. Our goodnight kiss is tender and warm. The next day I'm completely stood up. She won't answer my calls. Or my e-mail. Or respond on IM.  What just happened here? Turns out she was just leading me on about that exception stuff. Now she's verklempt with herself for bedding another married man. A few days later I get an apology that's contrition mixed with blame but never says "I'm sorry". "Never again - but let's still be friends, OK?" Subsequent blogging about other married guys who gave her such a thrill are confusing. Lesson learned - that's a temptation to be careful about. I'm still tempted. Still willing to engage in conversation. And do. Even become friends. But if it says "no married men" in her profile I'm less assertive for sex. Let her make the first move for anything more intimate. And I'm not so willing to believe it when she says "But that doesn't apply to you. You're different." Unless, of course, she's naked when she says it. That's an inappropriate temptation I'd still give in to. En-Joy! En-Joy! |
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When single I had sex with a number of married women. I think I actually had better luck with married women than single women. For them it was a sexy and forbidden fling. They never intended it to be serious, protestations to the contrary. I suppose I should feel used. I don't. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Hm. I come from the aspect of being the woman that another woman willingly bedded my man, knowing me as his wife and mother of his children. It broke up our marriage. I'm not sure that I am really upset with her. I think if I were honest, she did me a favor, getting me out of a marriage that I wasn't really happy in and gave me the perfect reason to get out of. I guess this is inappropriate temptation. Food for thought for me. Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Good, good post -- and I see the inappropriate temptation as being on her part, not yours. She set up the rules for herself, and then broke them. My one question: Is this a game she constantly plays, either with herself (our capacity for self-delusion is immense) or married men she beds? I wonder if the "I usually don't, but will with you" song is one she has sung -- siren, indeed! -- many, many times. Was she verklempt? I truly wonder... Let us know if there is an update to this story -- if she is, in fact, open to being friends! Stop in, read, and offer comments at my "swinging as seen in the media" blog, "Confessions of a Lifestyle Man" humorlife, which is also the home of the monthly virtual symposium. New post: The Virtual Symposium Returns Lets Pick A Topic
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In my profile description, I specifically state, "NO MARRIED MEN"....and the responses I get from married men are tremendous! Either, the rule is not acknowledged or have been broken so many times before by others who profess the same, it no longer lends credence.... Married or single....I do however believe that some people are in it for the simple pleasure alone....with no intention of continuing a bond thereafter...
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im sorry youe weekend went like that I just changed my profile so guys know exactly what I do and don't want, we women imply when we need to speak straight up so there is no problems  4  if love isn't the answer, than I misunderstood the question
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