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Chameleons
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Chameleons Ok, you probably already know this, but Chameleons are a species of lizard who, essentially alter their outward appearance to fit or match their surroundings. Lots of reasons, I suppose. Safety from being observed or eaten by predators, protection from the elements, to facilitate obtaining food or resources for themselves. It's not done with guile or to be disingenuous, it just simply..is a matter of survival. We need to fit into whichever milieu we find ourselves within. I have to wonder which of our colors/ characteristics we put out here. I'm sure the sexual one(s), certainly our most clever of humor/intelligent/attractive traits, at least those we perceive to be our best. We need to stack the deck a bit to help succeed in our pursuit for resources(bootay  As I don my professional outer skin, I gotta wonder which "you" I'm getting. Which "me" I'm projecting, to you in return. The presence of gold nipple rings and going sans panties under my clothes is, I think...my own sort of act of rebellion. I guess maybe these small things help remind ME of who I am. They aren't actually for you, at all. Superficial tokens that I cling to, almost desperately. Which skin are you in? |
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Ah, we are all chameleons in our own way. Sometimes the skin barely changes hues and sometimes to a totally different color. It would be great if we could find the skin that one is most comfortable in and project that all the time. Alas, that would take a perfect world and that's not about to happen anytime too soon. The most important is to be comfortable in the skin/skins that one has. Oh and I, for one, love checking out other skins also.
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I actually think I live in and love my own skin! I view myself as an individual and really don't try to cleverly disguise myself! If I want to be eaten by a predator I let her know! So,I am me! What you see you'll always see.
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I have decided not to do that and just be me. Sure everyone tries to make a good impression but I have in the past(sure others still do) said things that I thought others wanted to hear. Not any more,what I say is what you get.Won't lie to anyone just to get laid,we like each other enough to play or we don't,simple as that. I do however would like to at least chat or have a public meeting with folks to see if there is that spark. Too often I think am too blunt or is it truthfull and scares people??? Lol,just don't know.
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I usually put forward my child-like, jovial nature and my singing/dancing since women tend to respond more readily to that sort of thing. The only thing I hide for a bit is my perversion - most women get turned off by that until they get to know me, then it's safe to talk a little dirty or to tell them dirty jokes. Only found one woman (before you) who was into porn, though... I usually feel compelled to downplay my interest in it or never mention it at all. I know, I know - that's not good. But women can be so damn judgemental and self-righteous sometimes...
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I bet you're incredibly protective of the "real you". I know I am.
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We are all chameleons in this world carry secrets until we do not need them.
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I am pretty much what you see is what you get! No sugar coating of false skins just me. If you don't like me the way I am I guess you don't have to look at me!
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