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Gut punch!
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Gut punch! What's worse, getting rejected outright, or starting to make a connection with someone and then getting rejected? it's got to be the latter. I found someone that was looking for chemistry and a connection--like I was. She was cute, she was smart, and we hit it off. The conversation was fun (and dirty!) and things were progressing really well. We made plans to meet (and have crazy bunny sex if things clicked) and then comes the text... "I need a different kind of pampering than u can give me. I'm going to have to cancel our plans. I'm sorry.  "Wait... what? Came out of left field on me. I was expecting it to be about our plans for tonight. (Well, I guess it was, in a way...) We talked a little more, but she had already decided this site wasn't what she needed and deleted her account. Despite everything that we had been talking about, those same things were now not what she wanted. We wished each other luck in finding what we were looking for, and that was that. Maybe she just got cold feet. Maybe she had a revelation. Who can say? Thing is--it's pretty easy to tell when the "not interested" message is coming. The time between communication increases. Answers get shorter and shorter. If I'm getting one-word answers from a woman I'm talking to, it's "Thanks for your time, it was great to meet you!" Women--if you're not interested, just say so. It's okay. We know you're nice, and don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but stringing things out until he gets the hint or gets bored and just leaves is lame. Anyway, this one caught me off-guard, because things were trending in the opposite direction. Last thing we had talked about was how excited we were for today, who deserved to be pampered more, who was more fun, etc. What changed her mind between then and the next message I got? Who knows? C'est la vie. The search for a connection with chemistry continues...  |
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She deleted her profile, Sandra. I don't think she's going to be contacting me anytime soon. 
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