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When does it get bad?
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When does it get bad? Have you ever had sex with someone that was absolutely phenomenal? And not just once or twice, but every single time you had sex? Have you ever had that partner that gave you what you wanted/needed rather than them giving you what they wanted you to have? I can say that I have. But sadly, I may never have that again. Circumstances have dictated that we may never be together again. When I think about finding someone who will be the kind of lover I need, I lament. I don't believe I will find the kind of lover who can be what I need. But more importantly, I don't think I'll find that kind of lover I can trust. I have been on a journey of self exploration, especially sexually. I have come to realize some things about myself, about my needs and desires. And I still want to continue this journey. How am I to do this when I lose the best fucking lover I have ever had? The conversations were easy. The time we spent together was fun. The sex was effortless, flawless. Maybe I will find someone comparable, but I am not holding out much hope. 
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12/19/2021 5:41 am |
I'm going to cheat and answer with words from Adele: I've made up my mind Don't need to think it over If I'm wrong, I am right Don't need to look no further This ain't lust I know this is love, but If I tell the world I'll never say enough 'Cause it was not said to you And that's exactly what I need to do If I end up with you Should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements? Even if it leads nowhere Or would it be a waste? Even If I knew my place, should I leave it there? Should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements? Even if it leads nowhere I build myself up And fly around in circles Waiting as my heart drops And my back begins to tingle Finally, could this be it, or? Should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements? Even if it leads nowhere Or would it be a waste? Even if I knew my place, should I leave it there? Should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements? Even if it leads nowhere, yeah Should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements? Even if it leads nowhere Or would it be a waste? Even if I knew my place, should I leave it there? Should I give up? Or should I just keep on chasing pavements? Should I just keep on chasing pavements? Oh-oh Should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements? Even if it leads nowhere Or would it be a waste? Even if I knew my place, should I leave it there? Should I give up? Or should I just keep chasing pavements? Even if it leads nowhere. I'm going to keep chasing; 'I know she's out there somewhere; she's looking for me too". (And then there are other times when I feel that I am a glutton for punishment).
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Have faith BATS, I am sure you will  I had someone that was like that to me also. We split but occasionally see each other as FWB. Our lives and careers keep us apart. Even after 10 years, she still tells me I'll find the perfect woman.Continue your journey, keep your head up. There is someone out there that is similar to what you had or better. It just takes time. I have a feeling you'll find yours before I find mine.
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yes i have that only once and i have been in lots relationships i like to pleasure a woman i dont care about cumming.
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8/18/2014 12:43 am |
there is always someone as good or better
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I know exactly what you mean.....I have that right now in my husband....everything that you described , from the conversation, trust ease and freedom to be exactly who, how and what I am, all the way to the most consistently amazing sex (lovemaking) I have ever experienced in my years on this planet....that loving that causes tears of total....I don't even know what to call it....lol....in short I feel you girly girl....
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I have not experienced that but want to. You were blessed or lucky once why can't it happen again?
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