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Blogs > 40BATS > Me, Myself and I

Fakes and Flakes  

40BATS 54F
133 posts
6/22/2015 6:19 pm
Fakes and Flakes

I hear men constantly complain that the women here are fakes or flakes. Well, I am here to tell you that the men here are just as fake and flakey (if not more than) the women.
In recent history (since the beginning of 2015) I have TRIED to see if any of the men are sincere in their requests for a meeting. So far, I am batting 100% (for flakiness).
One cat couldn't decide WHAT he wanted to do. And I got stood up by 2 more. But, yet and still, I got emails and text messages saying how much they want to meet me and how long they waited. Newsflash: My time is valuable. I refuse to waste it on inconsiderate jerkwads who aren't being honest with me.
So, as my profile states, 2015 is my no BS year. I have added 3 more flakes to my BS pile. I am sure this wiill double or triple in size by the end of the year.
Don't come to me with your B game. Don't BS me and think I am so stupid or desperate that you can say and do what you want and I am just going to gloss over it. No PARTNER. I don't play that. First impressions are lasting. And, to those who have missed our first / second meet, don't bother. I am no longer interested. NEXT!!!
MuseHunter21 52M
3 posts
10/2/2016 9:03 am

 Yeah, I have seen and experienced the same things myself. I think most do not meet one or more of your criteria or have otherwise be untruthful and know that a meeting will out whatever they have hidden. They are not who they have said they are, do not look like they have portrayed themselves to look or have some other flaw that cannot be hidden with an in person meet. I figured there would be some like that on here but the numbers are staggering I am afraid. A shame because you look and sound like an absolute dream cum true.


BhamTuscaloosa1 59M/52F  
7 posts
9/20/2016 7:29 am

 Could also be possibly you are picking the wrong people, just saying.


40BATS replies on 1/16/2017 4:33 pm:
I am not "picking". They are choosing to come to my profile and read and take a chance. And, to be perfectly honest, what kind of person would be on here to JUST get pictures, chats etc...

rm_xxred322 53M
11 posts
8/14/2015 3:29 pm

 Well said and there are some fake people on the site.40 bats I can't believe that you have been stood up wowww.I wish I was closer to you so maybe I would change how you feel about most people on the site.Always love your pics on the site and now I love your blog as well.


jevlin5 43M
4 posts
8/8/2015 2:12 pm

 hi i like u r what u r in real i m single will u b frind of mine but livin relationship


cs1df2 41M
Ask me for a photo
1463 posts
7/5/2015 3:44 am

 yeah - when it comes down to it there are a lot of individuals in the world that speak well beyond what they are willing to actually do .... and that's even talking about the small simple things.

So it's not much of surprise when someone doesn't actually show up - or even respond.

(I've pretty much gotten to the point where, I've decided to just live my life and if someone wants to be involved in some way they can - and if they don't it's not going to change what I do (e.g. if it's a meal I'm still going to go eat it's going to be somewhere where I'd also go and eat alone).


dickencider2006 71M
188 posts
6/22/2015 6:50 pm

 LOL...good for you and well said!..


rm_rubb12001 62M
16 posts
6/22/2015 6:25 pm

 same here I may not be what your looking for,but I have made dinner reservations 3 times and eat alone I can relate


40BATS replies on 6/22/2015 6:54 pm:
This last one didn't cancel until 10 minutes AFTER we were supposed to meet. Good thing I didn't leave my house.

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