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25 Days In, and It's Still No Better
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4/28/2020 7:06 am |
Well said. None of this went as anyone could have imagined. While I doubt people are meeting right now (did anyone meet here? ever?), I would have thought people would have used the time to build connections and maintain some level of socialization. Hey, if we can only communicate via the internet these days, might as well have sexy communication! But that doesn't appear to be the case. Just my opinion, but I think people aren't feeling sexy. While this pandemic hasn't induced panic in me or any kind of social anxiety, I still feel the anxiety that comes from a simple run to the grocery store ("seriously people?!? you still haven't figured out social distancing??? This isn't a joke! People are dying!"). That doesn't lend well to being in the usual LesbianPersonals heightened state of arousal. Additionally, so many people are sheltering in place with everyone else in the house. There's kids around, there are spouses hovering nearby (both men and women alike here are all lying about their marital status, it's crazy), there are distractions, phone calls from family because mom is worried, check-in's from work, etc. I would imagine this would be an opportunity for men here to develop their skills at non-sexual conversation. That's really what we need. I believe the confined space of being stuck inside results in cabin fever, and people are just itching for release or to let off some steam - well, at least the general populous. But you do bring up a good point of how people ought to be utilizing this downtime to hone in skills or improving on their own personal lots in life, ie maybe work on one's resume, or the simplicity of reading more. I'm guilty of not making good use of my time in that regard, even with a few books I have on hand - though I am currently enjoying Neil deGrasse Tyson's "Astrophysicis for People in a Hurry". After taking a long hard look at things, I decided to dust off my blog and make it a point to at least jot something down again, to improve my articulation through what's on the page and to realize, that I have a long way to go before I can author something resembling a readable piece on the screen. All this is helpful in a sense; because when left to our devices, the human mind trends to wander down that deep dirty corridor that is sexuality. Imagine for a moment being cut off from any physical contact, such as in my case. Even when I make the concerted effort to be a more productive member, there seems to be an abundance of mitigating factors and other stimuli that makes me think what stirs below is better south of belt. That said, it's "conversations" to things I post that help pull myself from the deep end, so to speak, in the hopes the musing push will become a good mental exercise. Feel free to swing by again; your input is greatly appreciated.
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Well said. None of this went as anyone could have imagined. While I doubt people are meeting right now (did anyone meet here? ever?), I would have thought people would have used the time to build connections and maintain some level of socialization. Hey, if we can only communicate via the internet these days, might as well have sexy communication! But that doesn't appear to be the case. Just my opinion, but I think people aren't feeling sexy. While this pandemic hasn't induced panic in me or any kind of social anxiety, I still feel the anxiety that comes from a simple run to the grocery store ("seriously people?!? you still haven't figured out social distancing??? This isn't a joke! People are dying!"). That doesn't lend well to being in the usual LesbianPersonals heightened state of arousal. Additionally, so many people are sheltering in place with everyone else in the house. There's kids around, there are spouses hovering nearby (both men and women alike here are all lying about their marital status, it's crazy), there are distractions, phone calls from family because mom is worried, check-in's from work, etc. I would imagine this would be an opportunity for men here to develop their skills at non-sexual conversation. That's really what we need.
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4/27/2020 7:03 am |
I hear ya' and you are right on and yet it still costs money to send even one page on this site. Thanks for stopping in. M~
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4/27/2020 7:01 am |
- Thanks for stopping in, and thinking of my recent entry; I went back and polished it up; last night, I was pretty tired when I wrote it - I took a look at it, and wondered, "Was that really me who penned that?" So, it's been cleaned for better reading comprehension. I sure hope what I wrote leaves an indelible mark; let me know how that goes. M~
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1 post 4/26/2020 11:51 pm |
I hear ya' and you are right on and yet it still costs money to send even one page on this site.
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4/26/2020 8:53 pm |
- M~ 4.26.20
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