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A stale marriage  

stuart__Jordan 51M
13 posts
6/15/2015 2:17 am
A stale marriage

I'm sure I'm not the only person who has a relationship that has gone a bit stale. Three and all their activities means a busy life. You throw business commitments into that and it can be hard going trying to fit everything in. What suffers is the physical side of a relationship.
I adore my and, if I'm honest, I'd never leave my wife because of the disruption it would cause to the family. Coming from a secure home, in my mind, is vital for to grow up.
Is that me sacrificing my happiness for the greater good of the family? Perhaps?
Am I being selfish by being on this site instead of throwing all my energy into romancing the wife? Perhaps.
I'm happy enough, I just don't get much sex...in fact any! I've had my lovers over the years, very discreet, and that tides me over. The Mrs just isn't that sexual!
I've been on this site for four years now and met no-one, perhaps I never will.
It's exciting to think that someone out there might be in a similar situation and might find a tall, athletic chap attractive. We can always dream.
Anyway I'm off to delver to music practise, rugby training, cricket training, gymnastics. And that's just today!
S

westozyboy 59M
44 posts
6/15/2015 2:59 am

 There are many people in the same situation. I have run an adult business and heard many times the same story. Some couples can discuss it and also have an agreed process to meet others. Some cant go down that track and have a second secret life. Some guys turn to other guys as its seems easy to meet someone in same situation and no risk of a hassle after meeting. There are no clear cut answers and you are the one who needs to live with what you do. A friend of mine has no sex drive and her hubby plays on the side, but she does not know. He says he loves here but needs sex, and cant even have a wank watching or reading porn because she says she feels he dosent love her. Its a shame because he does intensely, but there is no communication line to tackle the issue of his sex drive.


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