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A Bird With One Wing Down
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A Bird With One Wing Down I have a type, and aside from all the other factors, including some shade of green eyes, one thing they all had in common was they were birds with one wing down. That phrase was coined by Ian Fleming to describe James Bond's type, and also relates to John D. MacDonald's Travis McGee and his famous sexual healing. Don't get me wrong, I am not equating myself with two of the most accomplished lovers in popular fiction, I am only saying that I seem attracted to and to attract women who have been disappointed by love and sex in particular. I seem to come along at a time in certain women's lives when they have given up on that side of life and on romance, and I have been very lucky they found that with me for some reason. They are of a type, intelligent, attractive, but usually with a rough childhood, either religious oppression and or a no good father though the first had neither but was brought up to strict and too protected and rebelled. They all were very sexual women who had trouble finding men who satisfied them, or who even tried, and they all knew there was more they wanted and needed whether they believed it was out there or not. In all the cases sex came as a sort of revelation to them. Today walking home from the store Sheila informed me just walking was making her horny in my company, which is, even I admit, pretty damn good work for a man my age with a 50 year old woman. I will grant I know a lot about sex and what physically and mentally turns women on. I've worked hard enough at it. There is no one universal thing beyond wanting to turn them on and trusting when you do. Every relationship is an adjustment to individual needs and likes with only a few things that are common physically. The emotional part is more standardized but still has to be fine tuned to the individual. I get an inordinate amount of credit for what at best is a little knowledge, a bit of skill, some natural talent, a modestly larger than average endowment, a good deal of empathy and compassion, and great adaptability. I don't consciously look for anything, they are just a type that attracts me, but I do know better, I think, than most men what I like and don't like. No matter how attractive a woman maybe if I don't sense that innate sensuality in here I don't pursue it. It isn't something you can teach someone to feel, it is there or not. I get a praised a lot for just knowing the type who will appreciate me and react to me. I take the praise with a grain of salt because I know 90% of everything is really them. But I do work at making them happy. Maybe I don't have to work as hard as I would with a different type, but I still put an effort into it, and I can't help but wonder if I am not getting credit simply for stubbornly refusing to treat them like every other man has. I only wish I could convince them how much they have given me in return for what little I do for them.  Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.  |
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I haven't visited your blog in a long while. I remember reading a series of your posts all at once, when I first discovered the blog section . Over time I discover that I end up with more or less a type, too. I can't say that is what I actively seek out; as I get to know them, they reveal similar family histories. Or maybe they are the ones who gravitate to people like me. I've still not figured it out.
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I watched all the mistakes made by my older cousins over the years, and knew going in what I wanted and what I didn't want and wouldn't put up with as well as what I expected of myself for them. The bad dates were few, and the relationships that weren't bad but weren't special were learning curves too. I knew that good sex and having fun was not enough alone to make a long term relationship work. Even a good relationship can sour if there isn't more to it. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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I am funny, because this sounds as if I don't like strong independent women, and that isn't true, it is just they tend to be strong independent women who in one part of their lives want someone who completes the circle and provides the one thing missing. Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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You have lived a great life with lots of sexy women in them. Making them happy is the key to success. From reading your blog you have done this! Some bad dates you will always remember why too hugssssssssss V Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.
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You have lived a great life with lots of sexy women in them. Making them happy is the key to success. From reading your blog you have done this! Some bad dates you will always remember why too hugssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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