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"What relationships are made of....
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"What relationships are made of.... It took 50 plus years for me to finally figured it out. Maybe if I did this in my one marriage and relationships, things could had been better.But at that time, I didn't realized it was important. I thought a phone was good enough. WRONG! But making this or spend this is very vital. Especially if you in a good relationship There times when you both want to spend time with friends, you can. But they can't take all that important in relationship, they still can have some. If you hang out, and feel like you hanging out too long, look at your watch The watch is a huge clue in what I'm trying to say. Be like the Rabbit on "Alice in wonderland". That of a gun always checked his watch. The Culture club made a song about what I'm taking about, and "Styx" had too much on their hands. Now you getting the picture. I dated a woman, one of the best I've ever known. This was over 10 years ago. I lost her because I didn't spend enough of this with her. I didn't cheat on her, but I should had gave her more of this! So giving less, I lost a good thing. I was so nieve, I didn't realized what I did wrong. I should had been like that Rabbit. Silly Rabbit. I guess what we do in life come back. Karma! I find key moments, special times when It's important to spend it with someone you care about. They make you feel like you not worth the_____blank. It's sad, but now I know how it feels. What goes around comes around. I hope I said it right? I try not to be the person I once was. Lesson learned. There was a New Years a while back. I was looking to spent it with my lady at that time. She decided to hang out with her friend, her friend was a wild woman. They end up at a swingers party. At that time, I had no idea what that was. She spend New Years eve in another mans arms. To the women I dated that was good. I"m sorry"! Now, I found the secret of what I been missing for so many years. I realized now of what important, and "What relationships are made of" and what they are made of is "TIME", spending time with the one you love! Riddletime*** What month has 28 day in that month? ans: all of them.           |
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Relationships are a very special thing between two people you have to spend as much quality time as you can together, and the most important part..Communication because without it you have nothing..Great blog my friend and Happy New Year to you.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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Happy new Year Scoupe.. Sometimes you better off where you are today then where you could have been.. It wasn't you not spending enough time but her wanting to be some place else. She would have ended up where she is today regardless if you spent time with her or not. Nothing in life is a given and now it is time to move on and find that perfect women for you! hugs V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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I look at it a little differently. Spending time with someone special shouldn't really require effort, discipline or contemplation. If you have a strong connection with someone, you simply want to spend time with them. And if you find yourself wanting to spend time apart, then I think the two of you may lack such a connection. Finding time for someone IMHO isn't as critical as finding the right person. Once you find that person, everything else falls into place.
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