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Blogs > jadesmith69 > I look better NAKED!

TIPS to Get MY attention.  

jadesmith69 55F
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3/14/2014 3:55 am

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4/23/2014 10:52 pm
TIPS to Get MY attention.

some tips for "bedding me"
In the past couple of months i have received a great education via LesbianPersonals messages with others.

because of the nature of things the more people i interact with the less i am willing to overlook.

so i thought i would compile a list of things that may help you get my attention and thus have a better chance at a meeting and a friends with benefits situation.

1 add more than one line to your messages with me. it may take you a few minutes to come up with something creative to say but if you just say hey here is my number, we both know why we are here lets get it. i am not going to respond!

2 remember that you are not the only guy on this site that is trying to get laid so put something out there about yourself. especially if you have no photo. (i know the site tells you, "get laid tonight" they can claim that because a few people have)

3 just because LesbianPersonals shows me online does not mean that i am, and when i don't respond to you its not because i am not interested it is because i am not really here. LesbianPersonals typically shows a person still being online for up to an hour after they have logged off.

4 if i am messaging with you i am interested!

5 i am looking for fwbs Friends being the operative word here. if we cant hang out as friends than i don't really need the benefits from you.

6 just because i enjoy sex does not mean that i don't want to be treated like a person, talk to me like you would like to be talked to disrespect will get you no where with me.

7 i am a swinger, that does not mean i will entertain your dark kinky needs. we all play in this adult playground but we do have to set our own boundaries.

8 i am a busy gal, if you don't have time to meet and take things to a friendship with me that is ok. if all you want is to message that is ok. just let me know that up front. if all you are interested in is meeting tell me that too it will save us both time. (i can play by the rules if i know what they are)

9 ask Me! if you want something from me ask me. tell me what you desire and you just may get it. if you don't ask i will never know and if i don't know there is no way for me to decide if it is what i want to.

10 keep it fun... as soon as you start whining or trying to buy me i get over you really fast.

this is just a short list of things that i have noticed. i am sure that others here have some of the same issues, if you take the time we may both just get what we are seeking.
Lets Create together. http://LesbianPersonals.com/blog/jadesmith69
we can fantasize forever.
J

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