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Men, what do you find more attractive on a woman?  

sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:14 am

    Quoting AmTrdr:
    I like a woman that can be confident in herself. The way she walks, they way she acts towards others and if she smiles goes a long way in making her very attractive.
AMEN!!


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:14 am

    Quoting bamaguy37:
    The sexies tihing I have saw on a woman...ME happym;
I want pictures. Giggle


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:16 am

    Quoting  :

I think of a plain girl, and I think she's pretty hot in her own right. I don't find dumb girls at all attractive. Maybe some fella can help me see why that's hot? Anyone??


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:17 am

    Quoting craven_nc:
    to me attractive are her physical attributes, but sexy is her personality, intellect, interests, willingness to explore, etc.
Good answer. I'll take a both -- with that description.


ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
6/14/2015 11:25 am

Incomplete Poll!

Too many missing options.
If this is the limits in the scope of what anyone sees, there's no sense trying to explain the details of what attributes a man/woman actually analyzes in those moments when they are first noticed. No to mention the continuing analysis once they actually meet.


CindyNPete 57M/57F  
6 posts
6/14/2015 4:07 pm

if i cant carry on a conversation with some one


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:02 am

    Quoting ProfessorNaught:
    Incomplete Poll!

    Too many missing options.
    If this is the limits in the scope of what anyone sees, there's no sense trying to explain the details of what attributes a man/woman actually analyzes in those moments when they are first noticed. No to mention the continuing analysis once they actually meet.
This poll is exactly how I want it for what I wanted answered. You're free to do a poll however you wish, yourself, if you'd like.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:04 am

    Quoting kittyliquor519:
    Personality & interests of course, but ultimately both choices
Ultimately, yes.

I love your profile name, btw..


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:15 am

    Quoting WNCCuckoldcpl:
    I think the initial attraction is always purely physical while the residual or long term affection is derived from her personality and common interests.
For the majority, yes -- but not all.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:16 am

    Quoting  :

And what, attracted you to those guys?? Interests.. or.. giggle


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:17 am

    Quoting needafwb13:
    Usually the first thing any of us has is a physical attraction, i.e. you see someone on the street or in a store and your hooked. But as many of us can probably attest to that attraction can were off fast if there is no personality or some very strange behavior behind those great looks!
So Step One, Check. Step Two -----

What's step three.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:26 am

    Quoting lookin4herMI:
    Have to vote for physical beauty, because after all if I'm not attracted to her it's a no go, but in saying that her attitude plays just as large a role in that decision, so you're not playing fair.
I am playing fair, laughs, it's a grey question versus black and white. A question of estimates.. meant for what "first" attracts you -- I'd think for anyone, it is a whole bunch of factors in the long run.. ( Or I'd at least HOPE that. )


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:27 am

    Quoting  :

AMEN.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:29 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you for your input!! I liked it.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:29 am

    Quoting anything4u58:
    Physical absolutely .That is what attracts you .Personality is what keeps you........later .huggs
I don't think I'd ever tire of hearing this...


joshis30 42M
14 posts
6/15/2015 1:52 pm

in my opinion.. a guy will be attracted to a female for her looks but will stay for her personality (inner qualities)


manstan27 66M
1 post
6/15/2015 8:50 pm

Where is the 3rd choice: "She leaves quietly in the morning" !
One usually eye balls prior to talking to a lady so i took that as the attraction, then hopefully; she does have a great personality.


thumper211 57M  
46 posts
6/16/2015 4:08 am

)n this site at least, I would have to say personality and interests because I do look at profiles with out pics. If I like what I'm reading, then I proceed from there.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 4:51 am

    Quoting joshis30:
    in my opinion.. a guy will be attracted to a female for her looks but will stay for her personality (inner qualities)
Thank you for your input.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 4:52 am

    Quoting snoopy892:
    Oh be honest you notice the looks first its what attracts you to someone first its how nature works.
For the majority, probably.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 4:53 am

    Quoting  :

MMMhm!


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 4:54 am

    Quoting manstan27:
    Where is the 3rd choice: "She leaves quietly in the morning" !
    One usually eye balls prior to talking to a lady so i took that as the attraction, then hopefully; she does have a great personality.
Wow, you let her stay over?


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 5:00 am

    Quoting thumper211:
    )n this site at least, I would have to say personality and interests because I do look at profiles with out pics. If I like what I'm reading, then I proceed from there.
I'm this way all the time. Physical looks, don't draw me in --- personality or interests always attracts me and gets me to notice and like them. I think it's weird --

I should of had options for girls though. Hmmm


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 10:00 am

    Quoting  :

Beautiful honest answer, thank you ---- it is why I loved this question. I found myself to be split pretty much down the middle. Going back and forth. I also in knowing a few men ( ) found myself a bit surprised that they were the same. It surprised me. I now though -- find looks having zero to do with my initial interest. I blame all the hot men that write me --- ready to go. I was wondering for awhile there if I was broken. They just raised the bar ---- damn them.


Greenstorm1993 38M
25 posts
6/16/2015 4:11 pm

Of course both are important but I noticed in your question that you put in parenthesis (in the beginning). In that case I would definitely choose the physical attributes as that is what I initially notice first. Personality takes time to find out which comes after talking to someone for a while. People usually choose what imitates their own values and because I am into physical fitness and looking good myself, I value that highly in a woman as that reflects my what I highly value for myself. The physical attributes are important for first impressions which plays a large role in me even wanting to get to know someone in the first place. So long as she at least looks healthy at the outset, she has passed the first impression test for which I will now be willing to put the time in to find out her personality. Of course, I am young male and these values may change over time but for now looks are very important to me.


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