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Does Being Rude Work for Single Guys?????  

Cplforsingleguy 62M/60F
Ask me for a photo
24 posts
4/28/2014 8:12 am
Does Being Rude Work for Single Guys?????

We are here looking to meet people, with an emphasis on single guys in the 30-44 range. We've have said exactly what we are looking for, and highly doubtful we will stray from it. We are serious about finding someone, and thinking we may need to move sites to do it.

So, that being said, we have been getting a lot - a lot of IM's from single guys who are seeking couples. 90%+ are rude. And we mean rude. No Hello, no Hi, no I'm _______. Nope. We are getting downright rude comments, and even though we have stated we do NOT want to see dick pics, we still get them.

Very discouraged by the complete lack of class being shown by these guys. Why would we want to even hang out with you if you are rude and crude? One even had the stupidity to say that we should go to Christian Mingles when we said we weren't interested because of his completely crude opening line.

Another met a lot of what we were looking for, except he led with a rude opening line - to get our attention! He got it alright, and got blocked because of it!!!

So we have to ask - Why be crude? Does it work? Do women swoon over the rude lines? Does introducing yourself by saying you want to ram your big dick down her throat work? Seriously why would anyone ever say that before hello???

Here's a big hint. You never know if it is him or her. Act like it is her, and treat her like a lady. Say Hi. Respond to questions decently. Act like you have some class and things will go a lot better. Because if it is him, and you aren't a gentleman, never getting past him. And if it is her, she will block you fast!

Or, continue to be rude, crude and act like an ass. Then you can join the others on the blocked list, and miss out on a great time!

Your choice!

thinkingofyou12 67M
4690 posts
4/28/2014 11:17 am

 I sometimes don't understand my gender. I always chat well mannered and witty. As I enjoy women and couples I am patient and not pushy to see if there is a match.


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