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Blogs > Smokeblower > Blowing Smoke

Why it's good to wait  

Smokeblower 67M
140 posts
8/5/2014 7:11 pm
Why it's good to wait


(Photos of us used with her permission, of course)

I've been going deeply in with a new lover, someone I met on another dating site. We are so well matched emotionally and sexually, she's poly and happy that I have other lovers, and we are totally infatuated with one another.

I wrote to her four months ago on the other site, and she wrote back "No expectations, no agenda.... just an open door. That's all I can offer." I wrote back that I would like to keep that door open, and whenever she was ready she could walk through. I didn't hear from her again until last week.

We are both nudists and decided to have our first date at Black's Beach, the local nude beach. It gets the whole body question out of the way. We stayed until after sunset and by the evening knew there was something powerful happening. We've been much in each other's arms and thoughts, and not even a week has passed. I've been so preoccupied that work and my other relationships have suffered. Today I'm just coming up for air.

Waiting until you are ready for someone - knowing that it's time, and earlier would not have worked - it takes patience and self-knowledge. I am so grateful for her awareness.

Have you ever had a time when you knew you wanted someone, but knew it wasn't time? Did you put it off and were glad of it? Did you move on your impulse anyway? How did that go?

spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
8/6/2014 4:27 am

 It sounds as if you've met a soulmate.


Smokeblower replies on 8/6/2014 7:34 pm:
It does. And my life is complicated - I have more than one soulmate, a life partner, and a few more casual but very connected lovers. Abundance. And I'm neglecting my business because of it!

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
8/10/2014 9:33 am

 Excellent and love your photos too hugssssssssssssss V
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