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Blogs > honeyryder > The Honey Pot

Preach, Sistah!  

honeyryder 53F
22 posts
8/31/2014 6:08 pm
Preach, Sistah!
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FunPleasurable 60M
3997 posts
8/31/2014 9:40 pm

 chandelier "thEn" that would be just fine....
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honeyryder replies on 9/1/2014 12:55 am:
This is what happens when one taps out a post (and even a reply to a comment!) on the phone... and mental farts do happen.

Thank you for the heads up, Mr Grammar Nazi... I am usually one too, so I shall take as good as I give

frenzwbenefit 57M
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65 posts
9/1/2014 6:44 am

 Well said


honeyryder replies on 9/3/2014 6:37 pm:
Said by a Shirley Zussman. She's 100 years old. She's the absolute shiznit..

redkey444 65M
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607 posts
9/1/2014 7:02 am

 All that whilst swinging from a chandelier? Nah, too heavy. The chandelier will give way.


honeyryder replies on 9/3/2014 6:37 pm:
Perhaps that's a good litmust test LOL

bulehyatt 65M  
1717 posts
9/4/2014 2:56 am

 "Sexual pleasure is only one part of what men and women want from each other.

I don't know this quote - not that I'm any sort of expert on quotations from sex therapists - smile. But I think one of the things the quote leaves out is "acceptance". Most people want their sexual choices and behaviors to be accepted by others.

Which may have been even more of a challenge for a sex therapist to work through a hundred years ago, when casual sex was basically not an acceptable option for polite society.

I suppose most people in most cultures/society's support (or at least grudgingly accept) sex happening within the context of a traditional romance - whether serious long-term relationship or marriage.

What even today - on this site for instance - seems to cause insecurity is how others (friends, family) will react to sexual behavior that is OUTside of a traditional romance. People mostly know how to manage a relationship-involving-sex of the traditional sort. But I wonder how much of the "underground" behavior which characterizes so much sexual activity results from fear that sexual choices (friends-with-benefits, for instance) will not be accepted by one's wider social circle. Hmmm . . .


honeyryder replies on 9/4/2014 9:47 pm:
I think this is why she actually states that sexual pleasure is "..only one part" of what men and women want from each other.

(Let's not start on the interminable list of things that men and women want from each other... *wry laugh*)

I feel that acceptance of "UNtraditional" practices such as the FWB, NSA 'phenomena' of this day and age is increasing. From personal experience, the people in my social circle hardly bat an eyelid if/when they find out one of us is having such an 'arrangement' with a mutual friend in the same circle. Then again, maybe it's just my friends and I who are 'depraved' and of a debauched bent.

Thank you for stopping by my repository of mental inconsequential mental drippings bulehyatt. I do enjoy reading your profound... dissertations

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