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Why?????  

saskhotwife 51F  
17 posts
9/3/2014 1:26 pm
Why?????


Why do so many single males on here try to contact you on messenger and use the dumbest crudest pick up lines ever? Does that ever work cuz it sure doesn't with me. Some examples are.......
-do you want to get pregnant
-uncut native male wants to bareback you
-my mother died giving birth to me so will you hold and cuddle me
-can I bareback you
-do you swallow cum
-can I lick your ass
-waz up
-will you suck my cock
-do you like big cocks in your ass, etc ,etc,etc

Here's a hint gentlemen: any self respecting women on here will not respond to these opening lines and here's another hint if your not a paying member or don't take the time to fill your profile out I won't take you seriously and I won't answer you.

RideACowboy3021 62M
820 posts
9/3/2014 1:44 pm

Here is the really sad thing... some of those guys may have thought long and hard over just the right way to approach you... and that's what they came up with.

Save a horse, ride a cowboy!!


MRJMD0711 58M
33 posts
9/3/2014 2:32 pm

Oh fantastic I have been looking for a bunch of new pickup lines, I think I will try them out and see how long it takes for me to pickup a woman....thanks

J


Lonewolfinsask2 49M
23 posts
9/4/2014 3:15 pm

I tend to say "Hi. How are you?" and rarely get a response. So it doesn't matter what you say chances are IMC is going to end up being a waste. Even if you're polite and friendly it still gets you nowhere.


Lonewolfinsask2 49M
23 posts
9/5/2014 11:32 am

Oh, I know. I wrote all about the joys of being a guy messaging women on here.

http://LesbianPersonals.com

It used to be a lot easier years ago. Things have changed. Being polite and friendly gets you about as far as being an asshole.


Francoreg83 74M
1 post
7/27/2015 7:52 pm

It's hard to know how to approach a member on LesbianPersonals. I hope my profile info speaks for me. I too seek a discrete FWB. If hubby wants to watch & take discrete pictures, I'm okay with that too. It's the original connection that's fraught with complications. I'd rather not be crude or insult a potential partner, but how to ask directly when you truly don't know your correspondent...Francoreg83


rm_Syn_Is_In 50M
22 posts
6/3/2016 3:42 am

Plus folks aren't raised like they were when we were younger. Anyone younger then 25, forget about it. No manners. No sense of respect of boundaries.


coupletoon 43M/42F

6/27/2016 6:13 pm

We are a couple and are not really looking for guys (although we are not against a guy joining in or playing solo). Here is in our opinion a good written message to a couple that got us to respond and now he has been playing with her:
"Hello guys! Must say I saw the profile and definately interested in the possibilities! Must ask if me being a single male is a problem? I am single and just new/curious about the lifestyle. Confidence is huge for me in a sense finding a partner confident in herself. I am extremely comfortable with who I am and would love to explore others even couples, never had a partner or girlfriend who was that comfortable with herself to enjoy others at the same time. So that is why I thought i would try something like this and see if I can help others fullfill fantasies or enjoyable nights and possible fullfill some of my fantasies! Would love to hear back from ya! Please check out my profile and pictures if this interests you! Sorry if pictures come off as aggressive but like I said I am comfortable with who I am and not overly shy!
Cheers!'
I'd say - put in some thought and effort and imagine being the person who will get your message and what they will respond to.


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