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It's Okay to Lie About?  

rm_PrisicaK 49F
711 posts
12/28/2015 6:30 am
It's Okay to Lie About?

I wanted to see if there is member consensus on what you can lie about on your profile. When constructing your profile, it's okay to lie about?
How old you are
Your body shape
How big it is (they are-females)
Marital status
Location
None of the above


Bdysnatcher 61M
1021 posts
12/28/2015 6:44 am

I have not lied on mine!! But I can see where people may lie about being single when they are married because the other person may not want a married partner!!!


firedup_19 62M
1684 posts
12/28/2015 6:46 am

Why bother lying? If you successfully meet and get naked, which is the ultimate goal, your deception will be immediately apparent.


Hotblonde4U2have 56F
660 posts
12/28/2015 6:48 am

I think if u can get away with it a cpl of years only off your age.


JohnC1902 51M
379 posts
12/28/2015 6:57 am

If you don't want to say anything, then don't say ANYTHING.

I would rather leave a bit of info out than lie about it. The "hidden" info would then be revealed to those I deem are worthy of it.


Stay_In_Reality 56M  
2209 posts
12/28/2015 7:07 am

For the reason of identity security I have the wrong D.O.B on my profile, although my age is correct. Other than that, everything else is truthful.


iwalkstilts 48M
2869 posts
12/28/2015 7:13 am

Exact location.


rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
12/28/2015 7:20 am

I fudge a bit on location as well and I'm actually younger than my posted age


kcclaire0923 68F  
822 posts
12/28/2015 8:01 am

The age can be altered only if you don't go too far. I haven't lied on mine, but I have met many men who posts pictures from 20 years ago...their hair is dark in the photos and when we meet it's snow white....or they said they were a non smoker and I can smell that they do smoke because their clothes reek.

Also they said they were "separated" but live in the same house....oh BROTHER that's a good one. Anyway, thats why I keep my BS meter on high at all times. I was born at night but NOT last night!

{=} {=} KCClaire0923


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
12/28/2015 8:05 am

You need a "none of the above".

Thoughts from the Garden...


JustTravis907 48M

12/28/2015 8:05 am

I think a little fib on the age thing is pretty much the only one. We need to be honest with others about relationship status so others aren't caught up in something else as a third party. And height and weight, if we're meeting them in person they're going to find out anyway.


ashjosh85 38M/38F
19 posts
12/28/2015 8:22 am

to me the big one is marital status that is a huge red flag to lie about!!! The others not so much.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
12/28/2015 8:43 am

Liars are just liars!If they take the liberty to fool others and get caught like all liars eventually do.They have no credibility!Period.

Using more than all the road!


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
12/28/2015 1:56 pm

Not that I'm some kind of holier than thou type yet you shouldn't
have to lie here about anything. That said obviously plenty of
married men do yet that's their cross to bear.I wouldn't be one
bit amused to find out somebody I met here had ben lying for
sure, with the one exception being age as I'm not really bothered
about that as I get how some women are with ageism.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
12/28/2015 4:30 pm

honesty is always the best policy


FarmerJohn988 64M
79 posts
12/29/2015 9:44 am

I guess you can lie about everything and anything if you never plan on meeting anyone bee cause it you do the lie will be exposed and that just might be the one and only time you see them. And if you lucky the will not Blog about your lie and expose you to more people


moltenpassion 50M
456 posts
12/29/2015 9:08 pm

Well, for me trust is important. So even lying about age is lame in my book. Like seriously, what is the point? It just suggests the person is not comfortable with who they are and are trying to be someone they are not. And if they aren't comfortable with who they are then how can they be any good at sex??? I understand a slight obfuscation of details. Like a few MONTHS for your birthday or a nearby town, but if you are advertising several years younger, that is false advertising, not obfuscation for security!


moltenpassion 50M
456 posts
12/29/2015 9:48 pm

    Quoting  :

Well, I always thought I had a small dick until I read that the average erect penis is only 5.6 inches long. If the only erect penis one ever sees is in porn, it's not really surprising men over report their size. Anyway, one of my fantasies right now is to make a video of a sexy hand model massaging and then measuring my cock. I would use that video as proof of size, should anyone be curious, lol.


candylicker_6t9 62M
317 posts
12/29/2015 10:39 pm

I don't understand the whole lie about my age thing, or any of the others for that matter. I am what I am, except me or keep it moving. Someone out there will and I won't have to worry about keeping my story straight. That seems like a lot of wasted energy.


rickyspanish76 48M
7843 posts
12/30/2015 4:59 pm

I do not see the grace without lying!
I find this a lack of respect!


bigtimberidge57 67M

12/31/2015 4:46 am

if i am separated or married or in an open relationship ..sometimes till i get to know a person better


qtpnkpssy66 57F
69 posts
12/31/2015 9:29 am

Hate to be lied to!


bob144333 69M
201 posts
1/1/2016 4:46 am

i dont lie cause sooner or later you get caught


classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
1/1/2016 5:45 pm

I'm a lousy liar,my face turns red too easily.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


pilot6813 52M/52F  
21 posts
1/3/2016 7:14 am

Being discrete forces us to use a different location so people that troll the sight can not put "2 and 2 together" and figure out who we are. There are people out there that have printed off LesbianPersonals pictures and sent them to the employer and families just to get revenge after being turned down....if that happens to us we will be done swinging and so we protect our privacy. But we do not lie about anything else......


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
1/4/2016 6:07 am

I lie about my age, in a way. I have entered a fake birthday. For part of the year I appear one year older than my actual age.
I never enter my exact date of birth on any website.


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