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Questions on ED
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Questions on ED So I went out this weekend with a nice gentleman. We had a great time bowling and we went back to his place things got hot and heavy quick. We fooled around on the couch awhile as I tried to deter him from unwrapping me and placing his mouth on each piece of skin revealed. With me naked he grabbed my hand and pulled me towards the bed. He layed down and pulled me on top of him. He rolled on top after more kissing and rubbing. He tried mounting me unsuccessfully and then moved towards my head for oral stimulation although I had been jerking him unsuccessfully since the couch. We continued to kiss and fondle and 69 with no success. The only time he got the least bit stiff was smacking my ass as I was leaving. Why aren't men more candid about erectile dysfunction? When do men decide to ask their doctor about it? How can I ask him to get some medicinal help? I like him but no sex is a deal breaker |
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I think some men get embarrassed but if u see him again I would say to him did u have a good time last time we meet then say I was just wondering because u did not get hard was that because u do not feel any attraction to me or is it hard for u to get aroused then see what he says then take it from their.
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Dialogue would be a start. I have ED for years. Taking just a pill is only the beginning. Also, knowing one's body helps, like foods and drinking can effect it. Hopefully, he will be open about it. Most are just embarrassed or lost manhood. Cum to my blog and respond.  Have a great kissing fun time. 
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I am 57 and in the last year I started to have problems I went to the Dr and got the little blue pills. I take 50 milligrams and I feel like I am in my 20's again three times before I am wore out. lol. Talk to him tell him what I said if he won't get help I will come over. 
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Sometimes the desire is there but stress, lack of sleep, dehydration, or even being overexcited for a long period of time can cause performance problems. I have been there and it sucks, but I have not had a repeat of it for many years. If you had a good time then it might be worth it to try again.
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Sometimes I have trouble getting in the mood because of a mood disorder. The more the woman gets anxious about doing something about it the harder it got to get it up (no pun intended). Since it was you first time together he may have been a bit anxious about it as well. Sometimes you just have to step back and not try to make it happen and go back to whatever you were doing before. Please don't let me be misunderstood.
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if it has happened more than once it most likely is ED. it might have just been nerves but it does sound like things were hot and passionate. just say something in a nice way. talk to him and tell him that you really need him and that he should talk to a doctor. let him know it is nothing to be ashamed of.
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ED is one of those subject that we as men don't talk about..and it's embarrassing to our ego/ macho manhood. hear the thing, bad health, over weight, eating habits not sleeping at night all of these play apart of it, and we need to be more open about it, nothing to hide and nothing to be a shame about, go and talk to your doctor
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