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Very well put Rich. If someone is not pointing the finger at you directly, you should not be doing it to them. We are not in the 3rd grade. Act your age and do what you do best. People will look for what they like on this site, no smoke and mirror, no flashing lights will direct them to something the don't want. Keep being who you are and I will support who you are. I know one of these two had blocked me form their blog because I complimented the other on her blog. How do you plan to keep your blog number up if you keep booting people off?!?!
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Thank you!!!Nothing to add. you got it perfect and clear.   Actually, Maybe I will add one thing. some people is not aware of it. but it is not her first post in that regards, she is been posting about it for months. over and over. nothing new. (Saying this for the ones that excuse her behavior and want to blame others for the drama but not her). Many people, Some of Her own friends had ask her to Stop. Some decided to cut ties with her over that matter and walk away. Obviously She still didn't get it, and probably will not on her own. It will be her own downfall.
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Provide proof to back up your statement. show the pics of you giving a blow job.
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What, I am banned from your blog?. Now I'm depressed. such a bad a news. No need to visit your blog. They have been saying in other blogs. I am sure many others have seen their comments as well. Anyhow, Likewise my dear. your main profile. your second profile. your third profile and few other more profiles that you have out there have been banned from my blog. LONG time ago.
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That is not my style.  Anyways, back to it. Provide proof to back up your statement.
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There isn't any actual line crossed. When persecution comments are kept within their own blog, then that's fine. So they don't like someone or some group or fat women. Oh well. Don't like it? Don't associate with them. Their blog, is their domain to speak their mind.
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What about the people that were commenting my blog. but were "friend-ed" by YOU. They were originally commenting my blogs NOT yours, Why would you want them as friends if that is your issue?. If having friends in common was your issue? Yeah Right. You yourself don't believe that for a minute. Cause They were not your friends to begin with. they were not commenting your blog. Had nothing to do with you. but you went out of your way to give them points and then email them. talking to them about the blogger resident of VA.
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Proof...
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I am not the one saying this.....
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Sorry Rich, didn't meant to over post in here. Not gonna do it anymore. I am out. Have a good rest of the Sunday. gotta go cook dinner for my bf that is coming over
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Couldn't she also follow your advice about "just not associating with them"? ... She could if she thought about it, maybe. But again, it's her blog, and if she wants to write about not liking unicorns or fat women, in her blog, then so be it. The persecution occurs when you say somebody shouldn't be on the same site as you because you don't agree with who they are. ..... Yes, so? You can say that. As long as they keep it contained to her own blog [the exception: she is invited to comment in another area or blog] , then no line has been crossed. , and then asking others to petition the site to have them removed. .... I'm not saying that is right, but it's her blog. Besides, based on the "Terms of Use", she wouldn't get her way with LesbianPersonals, anyway.
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I said that person should be using a male or transsexual profile. That's perfectly reasonable.
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Your right Rich!! Sometimes it has to be done!?!? 
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Very well put and an excellent point! It also seems as though you've opened a can of worms even while trying to stay rather neutral! Most of the time it's not good to burn bridges, but every once in a while you find it's best to do so. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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I had to scroll through a lot of comments to get to this box! You wrote a hell of a good post, RickWalker! Nicely done. I'm not gonna dive into the discussion. But I appreciate that you hosted it and let everyone have their say. This is a very good use of the blogs. Yes- there's controversy but you prefaced it beautifully and then listened calmly and made rational responses. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Sandra, I have a question for you- I defended you on another person's blog that I thought was mean-spirited and then found myself banned from your blog. I find it highly suspect that you don't seem to understand that you are driving people away from your blog and you. I wrote a balanced post defending everyone's right to post whatever the hell they want on their blog, INCLUDING you. That you should post asking people to vote on a poll that seems aimed at bullying anyone who identifies as female, but doesn't fit YOUR parameters, and then when people expressed in the comments section that you were being a bully, you promptly banned them from your blog and you removed their comments. You have THAT right to do that on your blog. But then people caught on and started to copy their comments and make it blog posts of their own. You can't silence other people by emailing watchers and commenters asking them to not post comments on other people's blogs. That is the very definition of bullying. And when you poll people, then remove their dissenting comments and/or votes, you make yourself look ridiculous. Here is my rebuttal to the whole thing. I did defend your right to do whatever you want on your blog, but don't say that other people are being deceptive unless you are being completely open about EVERYTHING, lest you be called hypocritical. Top Ranklings And Polls Where Dissenting Votes Are Removed Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Sandra, Then by your reasoning, women who have had medical procedures where they cannot have sex, are no longer women. Women who choose to not have sex, are no longer women. I did point out why people would get upset that you provided a place for them to express themselves on your blog and then you banned them and then removed their comments. You CAN do whatever you like on your blog, but being mean spirited about people choosing to not agree with your assessment, makes you look like maybe no one should ever comment on your blog. Commenters are interacting with the blogger. When the blogger turns around and chooses to ban and remove comments, it defeats the purpose of having a comment section. JMO Kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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On the main list, it is unisex. There are male bloggers on it, transgender, and female. Kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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I believe if Sandra has to disclose her reasons for this behavior to you here , then perhaps you should stand by your own words and explain your own actions in the very same fashion ......As you banned me from viewing your posts , and why because I simply asked you to please give me a heads up when mentioning me in your posts ...which you agreed , and in under ten minutes after I said all was fine , and no need for a public posting about our issues ...there it was another post referring to me , without a heads up , and had been edited a few times with email exchanges from myself to you , citing where misunderstandings were glaring . As I sit here reading your remarks to Sandra seems a little like the pot calling the kettle black . We should never throw stones at each other , when here in blogs we all have glass houses , and someone could pop up and shine a light on how we all can be a bit hypocritical even yourself You are no longer banned from my profile or my blog. I did block you, because it seemed like no matter what was said, you would not acknowledge that I had written the apology post way before you responded to my offer of doing it. At that point, people had already started to comment on it, which you eventually did, too. I left your comment up and didn't remove it. Dissent on my blog has never resulted in having comments removed from my comments section. Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Rich, Thank you for providing a place for people to make the comments that they have. I feel for the most part, the comments made here have been respectful and while not agreeing, pretty calm. You have a good blog, dude. Good job. Kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Hey Snookeroo, How are you doing? Um, it seems odd that you would be defending Sandra here. This post didn't name her, and it was simply a post about how certain lines shouldn't be crossed according to THIS (caps for emphasis only) blogger. On my blog, I defended the right of everyone to do whatever they wanted to on their blog, including the things discussed here in the comments by other people, which I have only guessed that Sandra is doing. So were you directed to come over here and do that? And it's nice you're her friend, but what does that have to do with the lines that were crossed? I'm just curious, and I mean no disrespect. kitkat The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Well said. I don't understand why we can't just accept each other as we are and leave well enough alone.
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Since no one will defend hinj1 and I'm one of her Top Fans I haven't seen anyone on this site with a personality to match hers when it comes to interacting whether through email, on her blog or when she webcast. She always tries to make time for flirting or banter with as many as possible. No one gives her credit for cybering with service men stationed over seas who are lonely or chatting with the men who have not had a female to talk to on here and just want a woman to listen to them. Did she not lead the attack to knock the number 1 male blogger off his perch for his attacks on women and Ts ? He has yet to recover and then to be blocked by a T who she fought for. Walk in her shoes before attacking. She has a mind set of her own.
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Since no one will defend hinj1 and I'm one of her Top Fans I haven't seen anyone on this site with a personality to match hers when it comes to interacting whether through email, on her blog or when she webcast. She always tries to make time for flirting or banter with as many as possible. No one gives her credit for cybering with service men stationed over seas who are lonely or chatting with the men who have not had a female to talk to on here and just want a woman to listen to them. Did she not lead the attack to knock the number 1 male blogger off his perch for his attacks on women and Ts ? He has yet to recover and then to be blocked by a T who she fought for. Walk in her shoes before attacking. She has a mind set of her own. I'm not sure why you feel the need to defend someone who has repeatedly said that she is a big girl and doesn't need anyone defending her. Or did you not see her saying that herself? I don't mean to challenge anyone really. Just your comment seemed out-of-place. Or did I miss something? Kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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Wow. I'm kind of sorry I've even come back to the site. Definitely scrapping the idea of starting a blog.
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