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mrwiggley_1959 64M
47 posts
11/6/2014 2:20 pm

Ditto


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/6/2014 2:30 pm

I idid. After I decided to divorce my ex-wife, I met someone I didn't want to live without. I didn't expect it but it was too good to pass up. So, if that's cheating then I cheated. That made it appear that it was the "other woman" who was the reason for the divorce- it wasn't, and I wasn't about to let appearances get in the way of spending my life with the woman who is now my wife.

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shakeurbonbons 39M  
202 posts
11/7/2014 1:48 am

guilty... :S


funbitimes 45M
1329 posts
11/7/2014 3:58 am

I used to cheat all the time. Never again.


nudecountryboy2 72M/70F

11/7/2014 5:15 am

I used to---but don't anymore

there is one exception to that ---but her and I have agreed it's not a good idea--but all she has to do is ask

which won't happen


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
11/7/2014 6:15 am



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golosa1115 62F
1066 posts
11/7/2014 7:16 am

I don't understand the reason for cheating. Maybe I am too much of a romantic, but if I am with someone its because I care for that someone and to cheat would be to hurt that person. To cheat is to lie and living with a lie its just not for me. When I realized my spouse was cheating, I tried everything to understand his position. But like I saw briefly on a show yesterday, the majority of time a person that cheats does it for no reason at all, other than selfish needs. They do it because they can get away with it, they do it to proof to themselves that they can still get it elsewhere. They do it out of no self control. Its like a Kleptomania. The drive, challenge. Lol I tend to be so considerate that when I've been seeing a booty participant for a good while I freeze from seeing others. Even though I can imagine they're seeing who knows how many others in between our sessions. >>!


glu04 55M
187 posts
11/7/2014 8:13 am

who doesn't do it .. on very first chance


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/7/2014 10:55 am

Actually did once, was waiting for the ink to dry on the divorce papers.


ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
11/7/2014 4:47 pm

Why would you / anyone?
Its a rhetorical question!

The bottom line is: if you cheat, its your character that gets diminished.
And, if you're single, dating someone who has a spouse or partner,
then you're likely to be cheated on in the future by that person of lesser character.

Least not consider, those who cheat or have no dating morals are more or less exposed to sexual risk.


ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
11/7/2014 4:50 pm

Olivia,
When a woman starts to have that look of yours "in this photo",
is it really cheating if the man simply turns tail and runs for his life?


FreakMaster561 64M

11/7/2014 7:14 pm

of course, I cheat al the time


babyneedsanewtat 65F
1 post
11/7/2014 9:19 pm

I have at times been "In love" with 2 men at the same time.


ScorpioNOV1972 51M
415 posts
11/7/2014 10:54 pm

I don't believe there is a right or wrong answer. I however have never cheated on any of my partners and have never forgiven a partner who has cheated on me.

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slave2end 61F
37 posts
11/8/2014 2:12 am

cheating whether it is physical or emotional is damaging in any relationship. that means you have lost TRUST, RESPECT for the other partner. cheating is selfish on the part of the cheater! complete disregard and disrespect for your partner!

I never did and never will!


slave2end 61F
37 posts
11/8/2014 2:17 am

    Quoting AmTrdr:
    I cheated on a great girl a few months after we started dating. At first it was because I could get away with it, to prove I could definitely get it elsewhere. 6 yrs later it all came back to bite me in the ass and realized I hurt an amazing girl.
I am hoping that someone I care about deeply realizes this as well!


sirfelix7 32M
20 posts
11/8/2014 7:05 am

no. never. a huge break in trust and relationship.


rm_soulhappy41 61M
8 posts
11/8/2014 10:34 am

try not to butt never know lol mmmm uwanna cheat
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ElDeano64116 66M

11/8/2014 12:36 pm

I have to admit I cheated on my wife numerous times in the last years we were married. Rather than talk to her I went out and found what I wanted on my own. Sadly and gladly we divorced. We are both much happier now and sadly I am much poorer now. Not only was it expensive but the hurt caused was too deep to mend.
No regrets for the divorce, but how we ended up there wasn't the best way.
Now if I am seeing someone I definitely do not cheat. I would rather stop seeing that person and move on than to hurt them otherwise.


piercedcock4u40 52M
2 posts
11/8/2014 6:17 pm

I have cheated, working those late nights at work, putting all that over time with a female, you just get feelings. One night after work we met on a dirt road and it just started from there, I layed her on top of her hood and we had a wonderful time under the stars. Needless to say we kept on seeing each other as I made her squirt.


Oceana1969 58F  
442 posts
11/8/2014 8:21 pm

Never. I became a divorced Mom of three because of it. I know the pain it causes a family. NEVER EVER EVER


picouple2o7 63M/57F  
10 posts
11/8/2014 11:21 pm

No never have and would break up before I would.


Dustabhis 45M
65 posts
11/9/2014 4:11 am

humans were not meant to be monogamous.
we society become selfish and try to be different from other living species on this planet.


GryzzlyadmsWtits 110F
1 post
11/9/2014 10:20 am

After all the men that have approached me to cheat on their wives/gf`s...it has tainted me badly.
When I was younger...I listened to men`s stories about how their wives just aren`t interested in sex anymore, but divorce wasn`t an option. I would get all kinds of stories...pathetic stories, just so they could win my sympathy, get laid, and then go home to their wives.

I wouldn`t have the stomach to do it to someone else.


Nocondomswanted 60F

11/9/2014 1:34 pm

my ex-husband and I played together with others (male and female) from the day we started dating and into our marriage as well. So I answered "yes" but I am thinking twice about that answer now.


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