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What do you prefer???  

Jamierain1000 53F
189 posts
11/23/2014 4:18 pm
What do you prefer???


When meeting off line, what do you prefer? Grab a drink and chat or a coffee maybe dinner or meet at a motel? Not sure how all this is suppose to work out in the end. Is it normal to meet a few times before you have sex or just get it on? Id like to be comfortable with someone and even like them before getting naked. Does anyone have any positive dates or hookups they'd like to share... agree on the test results however I will always use condoms...so many don't.

YesterdayandToda 65F
9 posts
11/23/2014 4:31 pm

I have met at a local diner, had a bite to eat sat there talking for a long time he asked if he could kiss me goodnight then called me the next day a few days latter he came to my place. We have become very close friends for 8 mnths now. I agree there has to be some chemistry before hopping in bed with someone.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/23/2014 4:36 pm

Anywhere in public, whether it be a cafe, bar, coffee shop.

A place where you can meet and have a place to talk, kind of get to know each other, after that??


nd2hvfun 65F  
10021 posts
11/23/2014 4:42 pm

depends on the person i dont fuck on the first meet so lunch, dinner, good conversation if we click i want recent STD tests and than we go forward..if not good conversation was had by both

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realityforgotten 57F
73 posts
11/23/2014 5:09 pm

I agree with the STD testing. Be safe.


DreamRycher 52M
83 posts
11/23/2014 5:17 pm

I think it all depends on how your online conversation has gone, and the level of comfort you feel with them. The only person I've ever met off of here, we corresponded for a couple of weeks through email before meeting. By that point we felt we knew each other pretty well and tore off each others clothes in the car on the first day we met in person!


ScorpioNOV1972 51M
415 posts
11/23/2014 5:32 pm

Well, it also depends a lot on distance. If you are talking about people locally, than yes, taking your time is the best thing. If you are talking about meeting someone or someone meeting you from halfway across the globe, chances are, it will happen. Simply because you may not see each other for a few months or longer. STD tests are also very important and I can't stress that enough.

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loveboobs3d 60M
10 posts
12/7/2014 7:42 pm

My thoughts vary. The amazing thing about talking with someone online is that if you get to know them, you have taken care of 6 months of "dating". How you meet, where you meet, really depends on the conversations you have had. As a male, where to meet may be more "where ever". I also take into account that a female may be more hesitant about meeting somewhere, other than public. Hopefully, through communication, you have got past that point. I am a guy that really likes to cook! A "date" meeting may be that you come over, and I prepare a great meal for you. For me, basically, comes down to what my date is comfortable with.


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