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Blogs > ScorpioNOV1972 > Personal Love Advisor

Not what I expected for my first blog  

ScorpioNOV1972 51M
47 posts
11/9/2014 4:27 am
Not what I expected for my first blog

I joined this site a week ago for my birthday. Kind of a chance at experiencing something new and exciting. I uploaded a picture, filled out most of my profile, read some blogs and commented on a few. I've been messaged by a few ladies, mostly simple chat but apparently, one of these fine ladies thought I was her personal stalker or something. I didn't realize this at first because of her cryptic first message to me, but after my first response, her paranoia became quite clear. Apparently I'm part of some menage a trois code named Mel James, lol. Needless to say, psycho lady blocked me, but I guess that saves me from having to learn this later than sooner.

Just a tip people, just because you have stalker or stalkers, doesn't mean everyone is stalking you. If it's that bad that you lash out at innocent people, perhaps you should shut down your social media adventures for a while.

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sweetlips_03 45F
1271 posts
11/14/2014 6:24 pm

 I'm laughing, I made it 2 weeks before blocking someone!! Either I'm too used to this or my stalker wasn't aggressive enough. Lmao

I know you read my first blog. But I really didn't lash out at him. He emailed me a nasty comment. Don't get discouraged. Women are hormonal,and I think everyone would benefit from therapy.

11 years of it, and I think I'm a better person for it. My therapist asked how long do you want to see me for. I answered, until someone dies first. She keeps me from running people over and shit like that.
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sweetlips_03


ScorpioNOV1972 replies on 11/14/2014 7:09 pm:
I'm not sure this was hormonal because I legitimately believe she has a serious stalker issue. I went to a therapist once and when we were done, he actually paid me for the visit.

Lokin4Company2 53M
112 posts
11/9/2014 5:19 am

 I was graced with dealing with a nutcase my first week here too. The ladies like giving guys a hard time because there are so many assholes on here. Sometimes they forget there are just as many female fruitcakes on here too per ratio. I've also had a stalker. Once you've identified one, all you can do is block them. Sometimes we forget that LesbianPersonals shows you viewed someone if you roll your mouse across their profile's thumbnail. It is what it is. Just take it in stride and go with the flow.

Take the time to put as much honest info into your profile that you feel like sharing. Be yourself. Blogging helps emphasize your thoughts and who you are.

Once who you are is clear, the ladies that are looking for a guy like you will come around.

I speak from experience.

Blog away. Carry on dude!
The "Gentleman"


ScorpioNOV1972 replies on 11/9/2014 5:29 am:
I guess in a way, I feel sorry for her. Maybe calling her psycho wasn't such a good idea since she probably has a legitimate reason to freak out. Maybe I'm just tired, but whats done is done. My next blog should be a lot less dramatic.

Cheers mate

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