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To cock or not to cock, that is the question.  

ScorpioNOV1972 51M
47 posts
11/23/2014 4:12 pm
To cock or not to cock, that is the question.

So, been here 3 weeks now, just hanging back watching the flow of things here. Reading blogs, learning the in's and out's. Here's the deal. I've seen a few blogs from women mostly about how overboard or obscene cock profile pictures are. Yet, I can't help but notice just how many women have profile pics of their pussies. So, let's settle this once and for all.

Ladies, where do you stand in regards to cocks flailing in your face?

By the way, I'm leaving my cock pic up as my profile pic for 1 week starting today. I'll let you know if I notice any change in activity. Not sure if the holidays will have any affect on that, but I don't care.
I think cock pictures are distasteful and pretentious
I think cock pictures are ok if presented properly
I think cock pictures give a better idea of what I'm getting into
I think cock pictures are sexy and hot no matter what
I think Scorpio is crazy and should go back to his old profile pic


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ScorpioNOV1972 51M
415 posts
11/27/2014 2:33 pm

I'm actually pleased to see more people against it than for it in the poll. I believe private photos should be left as private, not publicly displayed like an advertisement. So, one might question why I did precisely that. Well, this poll is also part of an experiment, which I might add, went exactly how I thought it would. So, while we may all agree, cock photos are not approved of by a few people, it seems there's a large hidden society that does. Whether it's men or women, isn't the point.

The poll only shows a vocal minority.

There was also a lack of explanation for pussy photo's, but I'm sure a poll for that would be completely different. Thank you all for your comments this far and because my poll and experiment are already a success, I will be removing my photo earlier than expected.

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Stuffedshirt4U 62M
95 posts
11/27/2014 12:39 pm

LOL I don't care to get slapped so I am not putting my penis out first for anything. As for Ladywithatti2d, I surely agree and wouldn't ever tell my daughter to ask men to see their penis first. If I had a son I surely would tell him to keep his pants zipped up too. I don't know when showing your penis 'first' became okay, but it isn't. I guess I am just old.


snoopy41265 59M
31 posts
11/27/2014 7:59 am

I am going to get worked up here........... NO COCK PHOTOS!!! roflmao I am yelling it, standing on my head and pointing with both hands NO COCK PHOTOS!!! lol


Ladywithatti2d 83F  
485 posts
11/27/2014 7:53 am

Sorry, after thought here. I most certainly did not and never would tell my daughter to look at men's penis' first nor tell my son to shove his out there at all.


Ladywithatti2d 83F  
485 posts
11/27/2014 7:52 am

I can say at my age it is totally pretentious for anyone to think someone will like you or meet up with you based on a cock photo. There are so many other factors that come in to play including if they are an asshole or are selfish at anything!! I don't have time at my age to be around anyone that thinks what they want is all that matters and to hell with me, nor be around anyone that thinks I should worship his genitals. I don't expect anyone to worship mine either. Faces are so different and diverse that it will come in to play as well as personality and egos and things, none of which anyone can tell from a cock shot alone. If you cannot show me your face or I have to ask to see it I am walking away, plain and simple.


rdy2try4 58F  
3330 posts
11/27/2014 7:44 am

I was just directed here, and I have read all the answers. I agree with most although I am not seeing where anyone said someone with a cock photo is automatically an a**hole or selfish even in the re-quoting I didn't see those words.

I agree that we have no way of knowing who is male or female and there are tons of scammers here on this site. Many men use the female profiles to get views so they can see more profiles and photos. I do also know of the filters and in fact I was one that pushed in our focus group here on the site for those filters to be in place based on the complaints we were all seeing in the blogs and advice lines. That doesn't mean that people don't have an answer for this poll/blog post either lol

Personally, I feel that one should put their best forward for a first, and usually the best is not a genital part. I have honestly seen men that have said they didn't want the 'gyno' shots on a first view either. There IS a confusion though as many men don't want to hear you don't want to see their penis, yet you have photos of your boobs up. I get it, I honestly do. Unfortunately because someone wants to 'show' that doesn't mean they automatically want to 'see' is all I can say. Personally, I prefer to see your face as it was mentioned, Quasimodo has a penis and boy I don't want to wake up to that in the morning no matter what either. LOL


itsallfantasy 57F  
1150 posts
11/27/2014 7:34 am

    Quoting  :

I did not say nor assume someone with a cock pic is an asshole or selfish in bed!!! I will quote MYSELF here.. duh... "If you have a big dick and are an asshole and are selfish in bed and cannot get us off it doesn't really matter!!!" That doesn't mean any of what you just posted at all. I quite clearly said IF you have a BIG DICK and ARE an asshole and ARE selfish in bed... that has nothing to do with cock photos AT ALL. That means ANYONE with a big dick that thinks their shit doesn't stink and in reality they are assholes and are selfish in bed. There is absolutely NO freaking way anyone could tell from a photo alone if someone is an asshole OR if they are selfish in bed.. come on now people. Do not try to read into or add into whatever translation you wish to put to something when none of what you just said was in there AT ALL.

ROFLMAO @ DON'T GET WORKED UP!! hhahahahaha I am laughing because guess what? A question was asked and people answered. That does NOT mean they are 'worked up'. It means we posted our thoughts. The man is doing a poll and he wants ALL KINDS of different answers. Again, do not read into what someone writes as it is after all TYPED and you cannot hear inflection or laughter or anything. Omfg.. people on this site crack me up. I am well aware of the filters, it has nothing to do with answering this wonderful man's question at all. hahahahaha

I am so glad that when most people have something they want to discuss and hear everyone's ideas and things that there are people that actually DO participate and give their input and thoughts so someone can make a well rounded conclusion based on that information rather than say 'don't talk about it, just change the channel'. LOL IF you wish to use the filters, go for it, we all can. That has nothing to do with answering a question on what photos do we prefer to see or our thoughts on it, nor does it mean we are worked up. I am not even worked up NOW. I am laughing my ASS off. hahahahahahaha omfg people.


itsallfantasy 57F  
1150 posts
11/25/2014 3:03 pm

Let me add only that Casanova and Don Juan were not well endowed. They knew the art of foreplay and how to get women off. They made love to 1000's of women.


ScorpioNOV1972 replies on 11/25/2014 4:13 pm:
You might also take note that women back in those days had curves and not necessarily bulging round tits. Apparently what a lot of people consider perfection in today's magazines and basically society itself has changed quite a bit. Romance is forgotten now and it's all about physical attraction. I'll take inner beauty over outer perfection any day of the week.

itsallfantasy 57F  
1150 posts
11/25/2014 3:01 pm

First off, all men have a dick. It won't change its size no matter what. Quasimodo had a dick, I am not going out with him. If you are ugly, smelly, or an asshole your dick won't matter at all. I know quite a few people that are happy in their relationships even though the guy is not 2000 inches long. Most men seem to think if they don't have a monster dick the world will collapse when in reality less than 1% of men are over the average of 6 inches. I have seen so many photos of men with their dicks by dollar bills, cans, and other things and guess what.. a dollar bill and a can are 6 inches!!! SO FUCKING WHAT?? If you have a big dick and are an asshole and are selfish in bed and cannot get us off it doesn't really matter!!!

Now follow that with there are men faking as women so they can see dicks. Men are way more fascinated with the visuals than women. I am not saying there are no women that want to see, but just because they want to see does NOT mean they want to MEET!! So who again cares if it doesn't lead to anything more than woo hoo you got more views?? It is lame at best to shove a dick at someone FIRST with no face attached to it at all. That is my take on this. All men have dicks, don't BE a dick is the bigger problem.


ScorpioNOV1972 replies on 11/25/2014 4:10 pm:
I guess this poll and the experiment associated with it was probably a bad idea. It was kind of pointless considering like you said, a lot of men posing to be women just to see dick pictures. Also, I'm just an average sized guy anyways, so it's not like I was boasting my cock size. I am seeing a pattern here though, specifically female bloggers who all agree that dick pictures are best left to be discovered.

thatdamncat 66F
3929 posts
11/25/2014 1:21 pm

Id rather see a smiling face... besides the cock shot takes all the mystery out of unwrapping the...package

"You've seen my descent, Now watch my rising!" - Rumi

Some women are lost in the fire. Some women are forged from it - Michele K.


ScorpioNOV1972 replies on 11/25/2014 1:42 pm:
Yes, opening presents before Christmas is not a time honored tradition. Don't worry, I'll be back to a smiling photo by next Sunday.

demonicsexkitten 48F
10694 posts
11/23/2014 7:41 pm

I do appreciate "different" cock shots. Those that are taken with humor or somehow unique. I have contacted a few guys due to their cock shot but it was because they made me laugh (intentionally).

Otherwise I prefer to go look for the cock shot if I'm curious.


ScorpioNOV1972 replies on 11/23/2014 8:32 pm:
Yes, the mystery and the chase are always some of the best moments in a relationship. I guess I could have attempted a more humorous approach with mine, but that wouldn't have fit the experiment parameters.

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